What should I say when girl approaches me at club?

recyclablebantha · 2014-08-12T16:03:26+00:00

I'm blessed with good appearance, but cursed with poor social wittiness.

Wittiness is not required.

Often girls approach me at bar while I'm alone, and wait me to amuse them. Maybe they think I look funny guy. I'm not.

Amusement is not required. Funniness is not required. You've convinced yourself that this is more complicated than it is.

They leave as fast as they come when I can't talk with them. I just don't know what else to say than "Hi" and "whats up".

It's not about KNOWING. It's about LISTENING. The issue here is that you're not listening to her. You're in your head trying to think about what "the right thing to say or do" is. There is no such thing. But to the degree that there is a right thing to say or do, you'll only know what it is by listening to her.

That's right, by getting into your head and trying to think of what to say, you are cutting yourself off from the best source of information you have, as to how you should proceed with the conversation: Her.

EDIT:

How should I open and maintain the game, without boring the girl?

They are doing you a favor and OPENING you. Which means they're providing energy to YOU to kickstart "the game." And you're currently ignoring it by looking the gift horse in the mouth and wondering "what to do." All you need to do is talk to them and LISTEN, as outlined above.

omarm1984 · 2014-08-13T00:15:13+00:00

Go to http://www.howtoga.me search "club game". Done.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-08-13T05:41:14+00:00

You know how to shoot the shit? Just start talking about random shit. Tell her that after your nights out you usually head home to play league of legends and masturbate, but tonight you're bringing her home for sexy times. Say that and watch as she giggles, then continue to bring her home

Title	What should I say when girl approaches me at club?
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Date	August 12, 2014 1:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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