Being afraid of beautiful women is killing me

2014-08-13T20:46:18+00:00

Every beautiful girl has a guy that's bored of her

ImJustSo · 2014-08-13T21:05:55+00:00

Here's what my dad taught me when I was a kid, "Every pretty girl still has snot in her nose and snot is fucking gross."

What you need to do is quit focusing on a woman's looks and start understanding women in general. All women are the same on the inside. I'm not saying that all women are the same, I'm saying that they're all the same kind of animal. They all possess the same set of possible desires as every other woman, typically. Once you understand women you won't be afraid of what they look like, you'll be afraid of how they think.

All women terrify me equally because they think some FUCKED UP SHIT! You have to reconcile the fact that you're just a dumbass and you're caught up with their looks, when it's their brains that should be scaring you, because they're just as rotten on the inside as you are at your worst. I know this sounds fucked up, but it's why I absolutely adore them. They have all these fucked up things in their head and they just rarely say them. Once you can keep that thought in your head, that a woman thinks bad things about everything, then you can truly appreciate a woman who is kind rather than a woman who has nice tits. But you know what? If you can finally understand this point, then you find a woman who is kind AND has amazing looks, you'll fall for that chick instantly.

The fucked up thing is she'll be like, "I love you! GRIN" and she'll be thinking about the piece of pepper stuck in your teeth, how you need a haircut, and your breath stinks, and she's got to fart but you won't leave her alone. But whatever, as long as she has your babies who cares! Yay women.

projectm35 · 2014-08-13T21:52:35+00:00

Cold approaching won't make you stop putting them on pedestals. It will make you stop fearing rejection.

What made me stop putting them on pedestals: sleeping with a few 10s and realizing there were a few 6s who I had enjoyed more.

etcomro · 2014-08-13T20:56:04+00:00

Awaken the Giant Within by Tony Robbins

Make the decision, take action

bitseybee · 2014-08-14T18:52:07+00:00

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, [attractive], talented, [confident]?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

~Marianne Williamson

"Muscle man" or "fat kid", the truth of the matter is, with women, beautiful or average, the best man always wins.

Title	Being afraid of beautiful women is killing me
Author	irrationalmind
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	August 13, 2014 8:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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