I've changed my interest with seduction. I'm at a time in my life where I careless how many women I fuck or what it means to get laid by a hot woman. I have been getting tired of going out and thinking about how repetitive and boring the bars are sometimes. And this isn't that situation where I am boring and I can't enjoy my situation, regardless of what happens. I genuinely do have fun on my own and I can get an entire dance floor moving by the end of a song. I can make an otherwise small amount of people have an adventure they'll never forget. I can contribute my part in making the night.

It isn't about my status (ego). I don't need to be a leader to get a woman to sleep with me. I don't need anything because I know what I want and I go for it. If she doesn't want me, I could careless, there's other women that want me.

That said, I have been doing something that I encourage everybody else to do. I've been helping women get laid. I used to come from the perspective of: I need to find a wingman to help me and him get laid. But that's not the thoughts that I want to reproduce in myself. I keep seeing women going for guys, but the guys are afraid to escalate and it just goes nowhere. She could go for him, but she's afraid of looking desperate. Therefore, I want her to know he's the catch and she should go for it.

The last time I went out, I was with a friend and I primed her all night with saying, “if you see a guy you're interested in, tell me and I'll help you.” I said this to her like five times and by the time a guy made eye contact with her, she turned to me and said, “I'm going to go over there because we keep making eye contact.” Which was immediately followed up with me yelling “go get him” and pointing in his direction. She went over there and she got laid that night.

But what was even better is that within about ten minutes of that interaction, I saw several women put their arms around guys and kiss them. I fucking swear, it was surreal. It was like I helped three guys at once. Then about five minutes later, I saw a man and a woman staring at each other, in love or something, and I graciously shoved her closer to him and made no space for her to backup. I should say though, I didn't know this guy and I never talked to any of them. I just did it because I wanted to make her make the move on him.

By the time I went and danced with a woman, she witnessed how other women were acting with men and she was all over me.

I'm at a point where I feel fucking good all the time. I love it. And I think it makes a lot of interesting times when these things happen. I use to have this odd mentality where I thought I could convince women that they should take action, rather than men, but now when I'm telling them that they better take action or they're not going to get this amazing man.