Okay seriously, how do you ask a girl you met online for a date?

2014-09-16T02:01:39+00:00

What you're doing is fine. Its pretty common for online daters to get cold feet.

Richralph · 2014-09-16T04:53:20+00:00

I'm out a relationship a few weeks ago.

Tinder, I'll do small compliance after a bit of chatting "Tinder sucks, give me your number and we can text"

A bit of texting and then "I hate texting, let's meet up and hangout, you seem like a nice person, how about Thursday night?"

Blah blah, can't, might work,

"Ok let me know what day you are free, I'm available Wed, thurs, fri, Pick one and let me know"

Bam, done, move onto another one. Although I haven't met with a girl from tinder yet, but this is the first few days ive tried it, and I might be able to this week with one so far, and another next week.

If it's social circle "I hate texting, it's just so impersonable, it would be awesome if we could just hang out face to face and chat"

I have someone driving 20 minutes away this week to come hangout.

Sometimes I plant seeds like that, and they'll almost invite themselves, but if you ask and they say no, all I say is "I understand, i'd regret it if I didn't ask, :) " then move on in the conversation, or cut off conversation.

This is just my experience, I've been reading about game for 3-4 years, and actively practicing it here and there, I used it to get girlfriends successfully for a year at a time until i didn't want to anymore, now I'm using it for social circle building, lays and self-improvement.

johnnymaddick · 2014-09-16T12:17:40+00:00

On tinder you get like unlimited supply of girls. Ask 20 of them out on the same day some of them will agree, and you can have a date with several girls at once.

dont spend a lot of time chatting. After a couple of messages say something like: "You seem like a person who I might like. I am kinda busy and cannot chat a lot, but lets have a coffee next week. ITs only 20 mins, if we like each other we will do something else, if not 20 mins is enough to understand that and we dont need to waste our time chatting. What day is good for you, Tuesday or Thursday?"

Look, this is Tinder, you can say anything you like, you may even suggest to have only sex and nothing more in your first line. And you gonna get positive responses sometimes. With almost zero investments.

Have fun,

Johnny Maddick

2014-09-16T05:46:46+00:00

"Aye bitch lets get a drink"

itsmevichet · 2014-09-16T15:40:17+00:00

You ask exactly how you did up in your original post, except you need to become the kind of guy that women say yes to.

It's not like you're "asking wrong" - that is unless you spend 2 hours texting smilies and bullshit back and forth before you ask for a date.

Tinder and online dating is a quick first impression. Get all the bullshit out of the way and just ask her out immediately when you match. You can get to know each other in person. Make the offer.

If you're not in shape, get in shape.

joshsway · 2014-09-16T16:16:18+00:00

Your approach is fine; most likely, a lot of those you match with just aren't actually interested in meeting, or you chat way too much before asking them out.

Calls__You__Bro · 2014-09-16T16:55:32+00:00

Step one: Be attractive Step two: Don't be unattractive

For real though, ask her to meet. If she shuts you down for a meet and does not offer an alternative time, she's just not into you. From here, you can try sending dick pics.

Title	Okay seriously, how do you ask a girl you met online for a date?
Author	TRYNAGETGIRLS
Upvotes	11
Comments	12
Date	September 16, 2014 1:56 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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