Hey guys,

I have been doing a lot of reflecting and as a 24 year old male right now I want to be having fun and chasing women. After reading and researching it seems to be the case that the best way to do this is to believe you own the fuckin place and have fun. I realized recently why I was striking out so damn much. It's because my approach was so flawed. Women were able to see my intentions quickly and realized that inside I was uncomfortable with the situation. So I now have come to point where I need to change my approach big time. My biggest challenge is this:

Being confident and having fun seem to be big winners. It's not something I want to act out but rather I want to be doing and I am having trouble with that. I also don't want to have to depend on alcohol. Anyone have an advice on how to feel confident and to actually have fun? Kind of a stupid simple question, but any help is appreciated. Thanks guys.