What is your response if a girl says she's sorry?

SedditJM · 2014-09-29T17:13:34+00:00

Don't remark on it, she felt badly about cutting off communication and communicated that to you, that's it, there's no seductive spin to be placed on it (in general, specific cases notwithstanding.)

If you want to look at it more social-analytically, she is demonstrating your own value in her mind by making sure you don't think less of her for cutting contact early. If you try to stick on that subject you come off as having over-invested and risk driving down your value.

lofiharvest · 2014-09-29T17:41:22+00:00

I honestly think you are over analyzing the situation. She genuinely could have just fallen asleep and she in fact did respond to your last text message (The response came the following morning) . However if we are on the topic... I've gotten out of the habit of saying 'no worries' or 'its fine'. Why? Because doing so its a subtle way of reinforcing a negative behavior. The other week a friend of mine was being a bitch to me about something stupid. Yesterday she apologized to me about the situation and I answered with a simple 'thank you, I accept your apology'. I could of just said 'don't worry, its ok' when really her behavior was not ok. Now your situation is not all that serious and thus I would either just ignore her apology or say something playful in response like ' I accept your apology but now you owe me a cup of coffee'

projectm35 · 2014-09-29T18:57:50+00:00

I think "no worries" is fine. If you don't say anything, it could be construed as you were upset and are just deciding not to talk about it. "No worries" means you weren't upset. (It's all over text, so who knows how things will be construed, that's the big problem of the medium.)

Sometimes I'll say "no worries, I know you still love me." Then just continue the conversation. If I know them well enough that that isn't weird.

Title	What is your response if a girl says she's sorry?
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Date	September 29, 2014 4:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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