How do you use money/a good job to add to your game?

NefariousDude · 2014-10-15T05:44:31+00:00

I'm mid twenties and average looking. I dress well, work out, know a second language, do interesting things, and tell interesting stories. Above all else, I know how to socialize. I never mention my high paying job because in order to get the girl, I don't need to.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-10-15T04:46:54+00:00

Using your money and career won't solve your problem. There are plenty of rich, handsome, interesting guys who cannot get women, because they cannot connect emotionally with women.

robertmcshaw · 2014-10-15T05:11:23+00:00

In my experience, it does nothing for your game directly. Being relatively successful probably helps my game indirectly through a self-esteem boost, but no girl is going to be attracted to you simply because you make $120k - trust me. It can be icing on the cake or a nice plus for girls to discover after they are already interested.

nemesisrobot · 2014-10-15T05:35:47+00:00

Use your money to help improve your inner game. Get a gym membership if you don't already have one for example.

trapaz0id · 2014-10-15T19:03:12+00:00

Don't be a douche if you are high value show it with your body language and presence. No need to whip it around and flaunt it for everyone to see.

Continue to work on yourself if you want to spend money to get attention by all means but A LOT of guys here are pimping it with no money or career just FYI.

DaygameCoach · 2014-10-16T05:35:59+00:00

You don't use money to get girls unless you want gold diggers.

SheToldmeShewas18 · 2014-10-16T05:41:41+00:00

Since i haven't seen a true realistic example on how money helps you i will take a shot at answering.

There are two ways that money can help you: directly and indirectly.

Money is a big thing in society nowadays (whether you agree or disagree, it's just the way it is). Often times, money is used as a measurement, people will deduct if you are successful, how well you plan your life, etc. Girls will be more likely to choose someone that is successful at what they do than someone who does not have any plans for the future. In addition to this, you can afford to buy her a meal, coffee which it is seen are gentlemen-like and nice. These will put you an advantage over someone who is broke.

Indirectly, it can also aid you a big deal. With money, you cannot only go to the gym, eat better and focus on your appearance since money is not a major concern. But you also afford better clothing which is a huge part of the game, among other things.

Now, is money a requirement to meet a girl? Nope. But it surely helps getting there. Not to say it is also a major confident booster.

FigFishFudge · 2014-10-15T04:37:38+00:00

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Title	How do you use money/a good job to add to your game?
Author	FigFishFudge
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Date	October 15, 2014 3:26 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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