This is all very new, so I don't really want to go into a ton of detail. I've been reading /r/seduction for a couple of years and it's really helped me out. I've had a lot of success with women, getting them to like me, hooking up, getting numbers, etc.

About this time last year I met a girl and we really hit it off and all that (partially thanks to seddit). I gave her the best "me" that I could and she would say all these things like "I've never felt this way before", "there's something really rare and special about us", etc etc about how much she's in love with me.

Long story short, it was great and then I find out she was seeing another guy. Not just any other guy, this guy is a fucking loser who can hardly spell. It was an ex that she complained about from time to time and for whatever reason she got back with him while she was with me.

I just found this all out, so it's kind of new. But I feel like suddenly my best isn't good enough. It feels like if I gave my all to this girl that was "wildly in love with me", and she cheated on me, it feels like I'm not good enough. I don't know how else to explain it.

I know that SHE fucked up, not me. But it just feels like shit. I tried getting right back out and seeing other girls, but it just feels shitty. I feel unresolved or like I don't understand what's "wrong" with me.

I can still talk up a girl no problem and get her to want me and all that, I just don't feel like I even want to have a relationship with anyone anymore. I'm scared to trust anyone and I feel like I'm not good enough or something.

I know this could probably go in /r/relationships, but I feel like this is more of a confidence issue, which is what seddit seems to be great with.

Any suggestions on how to handle this? How can I just start seeing other girls and stuff without feeling like I can't trust anyone or that I'm inadequate?

Thanks in advance.