I feel like no girls look at me sexually, at any place?

HappyActionFunTime · 2014-10-21T17:45:21+00:00

Two things. 1) Keep working out and getting fit. I lost 50 pounds in the last two years and have been working out 5-6 days a week for most of that time. Am I just slaying pussy right and left? No. Am I doing far better than I ever have in my life? Abso-goddamn-lutely. Also go into public with a calm confident look on your face. Fake it if you have to (and I def had to at first and occasionally still do) and eventually it'll start to become natural

And 2) Most of the time someone is checking you out you're probably not going to notice. Think of all the times you've checked someone out. Sometimes they look over and catch you! But seriously most of the time they won't. Same goes for you.

Now crush it.

kingzombymandias · 2014-10-21T18:33:57+00:00

Well that's your first mistake right there. Zero self confidence.

etcomro · 2014-10-21T18:57:22+00:00

Yeah, women are incredibly tactful about checking us out and actually have a wider field of vision than we do. Unless you're an absolute trainwreck (obese, stinky, otherwise low value) they are totally looking at you. Probably several times a day without you knowing. And even if you were the aforementioned train wreck they're probably still looking at your because everyone has their kink.

Jrix · 2014-10-21T22:09:57+00:00

Jesus is everyone here retarded? You're short as fuck, the vast vast majority of women aren't going to look at you sexually unless you demonstrate significant above-average value.

Being short adds more resistance to your life, forcing you to diversify your value more. Evolution ain't stupid and being short isn't a strict disadvantage in the big scheme of things.

You're not going to get much in this domain unless you go out of your way to earn it. You don't have the luxury of "waiting" for looks to come by your way.

Antmilk · 2014-10-21T19:06:33+00:00

Identify your weakness, build your strengths. If you're not blowing women away with your physical appearance then start working on other things like great flowing conversation, sense of humor, social status. These things will attract women just as easily. Not without confidence though, first and foremost, walk in that room with a clear head, and the utmost bravery.

baddog992 · 2014-10-21T19:14:53+00:00

I feel like this could use more details. When you say checking you out are you talking about at bars or in public places like grocery stores or at a library?

I also think your being to hard on yourself. I have known a ton of short guys who got plenty of women. I think it can help if your taller but it doesnt eliminate all hope.

Also just a few other pointers. Dress nice, it will help you look better to women and make you look like you care. Be confident. Your already working out so that should help as well.

How to get confidence is a tougher one. Try doing things that make you nervous or afraid. Examples would be going to the movies by yourself. Do it and rate the experience before you go and then after you go. You can try this with other things as well.

nobody2000 · 2014-10-21T19:21:25+00:00

No girls look at me sexually. I'm rarely the most physically attractive person in a room.

But.

I go and talk to girls. "Hi, I'm nobody2000" and then just try. It goes nowhere most of the time - this is true for even the best at seduction. But the more you try, the more you can plant that seed in her head that you ARE attractive.

Because to be attractive, you must act attractive!

Keninishna · 2014-10-21T20:55:14+00:00

Also looks aren't everything women are turned on mentally as well so if you go for and talk to them anyways you can build attraction and warm them up pretty fast.

pizzapiemia · 2014-10-22T05:10:50+00:00

hey man i am 5'0 tall and asian, if you need advice with anything shoot me a PM

Title	I feel like no girls look at me sexually, at any place?
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Date	October 21, 2014 5:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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