Girl gives you signals that she is interested. Is it bad to make her wait too long?

DaygameCoach · 2014-11-04T04:23:26+00:00

Kiss her next time for sure! You cant wait any longer.

lvpr10 · 2014-11-04T04:53:24+00:00

Go for it! I was recently in the exact same situation as you, didn't make the move the first two dates. The third time we went out i just took a deep breath, went for it, and she was into it. Put the worry out of your mind for that brief moment.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-11-04T05:23:09+00:00

A woman will make herself available a few times and if you don't escalate, she might figure you're either not interested or not capable of escalating. She wants you to take action. If a woman likes you, she will help you through the awkward parts of becoming more intimate.

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-04T13:39:43+00:00

It IS bad. It's one thing to play hard to get, but making her constantly wait is a no-no.

2014-11-04T17:02:05+00:00

You're over thinking this. I am pretty sure if you spent the date around the city holding hands, you're pretty much set. You should definitely kiss her but not kissing her the last 2 dates isn't terrible. There's just more excitement and anticipation.

I don't understand why the other post you ask how to get a third chance. Can't you just call her up, tell her I had a great time and just ask her out again?

ProfanityBob · 2014-11-04T19:37:04+00:00

Absolutely it is bad. Girls have attention spans like goldfish.

allen33782 · 2014-11-04T20:20:06+00:00

Yes, it is bad.

veryhapyman · 2014-11-05T15:13:43+00:00

please guys remember to not put girls on a pedestal. remember to think also from your side.

If you didn't feel comfortable kissing yet, the girl, if she is a right girl for you, will be fine with it!

It should not be necessary to do things against your own feelings with the girl who is right for you and for a happy life together.

I was thinking trough these same thoughts myself, if I should kiss, and it felt very unnatural idea for me to kiss her. And everywhere I was reading that you should kiss soon or lose her..and I had 4th date with her, in 4 days, and going back home to another country so it was stressing me a lot, should I do it or lose her.. But it didn't feel like that for me, I liked her a lot, and wanted to know her better, all signs there that she could be the ONE, but I wasn't feeling ready for such intimate action.

And I finally, when we had just 20 minutes time left, asked her about it. And she said that it's too early, and then we held hands, and hugged, and that felt wonderful and correct way! So in reality we were on the same page and got very strong feelings from holding hands, and I just stressed to do what someone else had said should do..

So, listen to your heart. Eventually, this way, you will find your true happiness.

Title	Girl gives you signals that she is interested. Is it bad to make her wait too long?
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Date	November 4, 2014 4:11 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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