Shaky/nervous speech when approaching.

8sweettooth8 · 2014-11-04T10:46:27+00:00

I think the better question is to ask yourself, "why am I getting nervous?"

Do you feel nervous when you approach a random woman at a cash register of a retail store because you want to checkout? What about when you want to ask a woman for directions? Hopefully, your answer is no. If so, think about why...

Your objective in these and similar situations is something other than "I want her number", so why get nervous, right? So what is your objective when you are approaching these women?

Keep it simple. Your mindset is currently geared toward obtaining some sort of outcome. A better mindset would be "I'm going to have great conversation".

markyb303 · 2014-11-04T18:02:50+00:00

Hey man I made a video response to your question on how to deal with being nervous and having a shaky voice when approaching

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2QvlikRbRc8&feature=youtu.be

let me know what you think!

ThatSpecialPlace · 2014-11-04T06:34:27+00:00

You're going to have to keep approaching if you want it to go away, but there are ways to make it less noticeable.

Imagine yourself approaching the girl, and play the scenario out in your mind. Visualization can help you feel like you've already done it.

Also, this one works for me, but try to make your voice even more shaky, this can actually make it go away

gexxx007 · 2014-11-04T15:27:21+00:00

Keep a flask of alcohol in your pocket to calm your nerves, keep yourself feeling buzzed when talking to chicks.

Title	Shaky/nervous speech when approaching.
Author	Hutzler571slicer
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	November 4, 2014 5:34 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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