Hello Sedditors! I've been a long time lurker for almost 2 years. Now I think it's time to give something back to you guys. I had an awesome experience and F-Close with a girl a few weeks ago that probably would have never happened without all those great material I've read here. So this is my first post and Field Report at the same time. It took place in the middle of Germany near Frankfurt, where I live. So all the conversations were in german language and may sound a little bit different in this english version but I will try to translate our quotes as well as possible.

My guideline or "toolkit" was the brilliant DiCarlo Escalation Ladder and several parts of TofuTofu's Above The Game and of course lots of stuff about 'Game' that was placed in the sidebar like strong eye contact, aa, body language, shit tests, kino etc.

I went out on an ordinary friday evening to play pool with my buddies and strafe/sarge through the bars later on, drinking good german beer of course :) Later in the early evening, one of my two mates went for some more drinks and the other one had to take a dump I think. I sat down to the couch right beside the pool table and she entered the room. HB7 at first sight I would say, but fuck the HB ladder .. she was smiling, attractive, and seems to be a nice little girl. "Hello :) Hey you, my teammates are gone right now. Please make a shoot for them, so I can go on with the game" was my opener to her (3-second rule). I got the same reaction as always: "Oh well, I'm not really good at this" followed by an "ok whatever, do it! Here is the cue" from my side. She looks at the table, preparing for her move, and my mates came back already, so I strongly commanded her (in a funny way) to hurry up a little. She seems to like that instructional tone in my voice and quickly made her shoot with a gentle smile in my direction (eyeballing). So the right "calibration" to my target was already found (boldness).

Then she leaves the room to met up with her friends at the front of the bar. A little later she came back and my mate arranged a teamgame with her group and our group. Pleasantly suprised we noticed that there was another cute girl in her "mixed set" and one guy (but not a cockblocking AMOG) to team up. So we played and chatted for a while and time flies by, DHV and push/pull stuff included. At one point, I played the role of her personal pool trainer and she asked me about almost every ball to shoot. I said: "Look, if people see us so near this often, they may think we're a couple." "OK, so what?" was all she replied quite careless. Later on, when I had a deeper conversation with her (intense triangular gazing as well), my mate did a great job as Wingman and kept away all the requests on us to go on with playing and took care for drinks etc. You should know at this point that I did the same for him a few weeks earlier, so we are nearly even now :) Big thanks to you Bro I'd like to mention particularly here! He will read this and know that he is meant.

Afterwards my other mate winged me as well, even though he obviously didn't do that with intent. I mean I was physically escalating (Incidental Class 1 Kino), building attraction & rapport and all that (getting a few IOIs as well) but I didn't manage to lead the conversation to something more intimate or concrete. But he is perfect at this (if it's not his "AFC day") and while he was talking to the other girl, he/they came over to us and asked about those special topics (former relationships etc.) to receive our opinions about that. And finally this gave me the opportunity to come along with some views and experiences from my side directly to her (social proof). The conversation really became much more intimate then, because she also revealed some broken family issues (eliciting value). And this is perfect to let her know how you think and feel about that (bulding comfort & confidentialness). In the end she said something like: "Ok see, I would never .. well listen, I really like you very much, but I wouldn't go home with you right now, not this night." My answer was: "Yeah sure, maybe not THIS night, but maaaybe another night, who knows :)" and she was smiling all over her cute little face after that (disqualifying for a SNL). You could probably classify this as a shit test already, but don't worry, there will be some much more real shit tests to follow up later on.

Now it was time to hand over my mobile to her with "new contact" already selected in the display (#-Close). I read this here on seddit and it's really a great move and MUCH better than asking for it. And if the girl doesn't check it, just order (not beg) her to type her fucking number in there promptly. They WILL do it in over 90% of cases.

Surprisingly the other girl wanted to go home already a few minutes later, even though it just turned 1 o'clock a.m. She wasn't very amused about that, but followed the group pressure anyway, because she already arranged to stay the night at the other girl during her visit. Her home town was about 120km from here by the way. So they leaved and we said good bye to them with several hugs of course. Overall it was a great encounter so far.

We didn't continue the billard game directly after that and chilled a few minutes with our beer in the seats and chairs next to the pool table. Suddenly she came back .. alone .. and we all thought she might have forgotten something of her accouterment or whatever, but she directly rushed up to me, sitting on a chair, and said: "Ok, I only do this because I'm drunk!" And then she sticks her tongue in my throat (K-Close). My mates were really stunned by her move and so was I. Then she leaved again with a final smile and goodbye wave.

Next morning I texted her "sober you can also do this for sure ;)" and she replied "sober I can do that even better, I guess :)" She leaved the town the other day and we continued to write each other, so I set up a date to visit her in her home town next weekend. She even thought about coming to my place again but I decided to do the logistics and plan the 'journey' to her.

Fast forward a week ... we're on Day Two now:

I drove nearly 120km on a beautiful Saturday afternoon in autumn. She let me know the address of her apartment, so I parked my car directly at her front door. I saw no one outside and had one last thought if she might be flakey, but then she came out to the court yard and I directly hugged, uplifted and cuddled her (Overt Class 2 Kino). You should know that she often mentioned later on how essential this has been for everything that happens afterwards.

(For the following comments in brackets, please see the orginal and full DiCarlo Escalation Ladder.)

Then we went for a walk downtown, having all the time in the world. I constantly looked her in the eyes as often as I could, smiling all the time (1. Eyeballing) and she became embarrassed and blushed a litte .. very nice! I love that. She pointed at some places and told something about the sights in her home town, but I did not care much about that (and she didn't care either as I found out later on). Nevertheless I was listening carefully and asked some meaningless questions just to touch her a little on arms and shoulders (2. Incidental Class 1 Kino). I decided to sit down somewhere and she agreed with it, so we went holding hands (3. Overt Class 1 Kino) to a bench near some ancient church in the waning sunshine.

I said "I need this whole bench with my height" and sat down there with my legs spreaded wide. I was typing on my thigh to show her her place and she was pleasantly sitting down on it with a smile. I placed my hand at the side of her abdomen and pulling her in a little (4. Incidential & 5. Overt Class 2 Kino). A few words later - don't ask me about the content - my hands and my mouth slowly approached to her hair, cheeks and neck (6. Incidential Class 3 Kino). After some time she has finally finished telling about whatever, we looked to each other, were stroking our faces and came to the point where it has stopped last time (7. Overt Class 3 Kino & 8. Kissing) but this time .. guess what? Yes, you got it .. completely SOBER, yeah much better!

At this point the DiCarlo Ladder already starts with the so called "Escalation Ramp" which should ideally be activated at an isolated sex location first. But we still were on a public square and as if she might know this intentionally, she directly comes along with the first real shit test: "Listen, you have to know something. I'm a tough nut!" This could rather be classified as ASD (that is absolutely widespread here in Germany I would say) instead of a shit test, but whatever. I did not think more than one second about giving the correct reply or whatever, so my spontaneous answer directly to her face was: "I don't care." That wasn't 'agree and amplify' (the golden rule of almost every shit test) but I think it was bold enough and worked fine in that situation. In Germany we have a popular saying "Dreistigkeit siegt" that can be translated like "cockiness rules" and it seems to be true most of the time.

Meanwhile it was getting dark outside, she began to freeze a little and we both got hungry. So we went to the next bistro round the corner. The pasta gratinee there was awesome, really! I honestly love a good meal and THIS was fantastic .. and not even expensive. So I take care for the bill. I know, I know, this does not correspond to the PUA ideology but look, it tasted really excellent and I wanted to reward it with a noble tip. Anyway just fyi she insisted to pay next time ;)

After that we went up to the big castle the city is named of. We had a great sight over the town and it got a bit foggy, so I snuggled her in my coat. It didn't take long and we kissed again. When I turned a litte more passionate then, she drove up her bitch-shield and said: "I still need time." My reaction to this was an insightfully warm grin and I pushed things a little slower again (Freeze-Out), but did not stop completely. Don't sulk and surrender in those situations! Neil Strauss already said it years ago, the best advice he can give is: "Never give up!"

It wasn't that late, but I was a little tired already (had a long night with my buddies the day before), so I told her I want to go back to my car now. She seemed to be a little disappointed and obviously thought I plan to drive home already, because she asked about it in a very low voice on our way back. So when we arrived at her door, we decided to sit down in the car just for a moment. I had a water bottle in there and drank much of it. My plan was to ask her if I could use her toilet finally but as you will read later on this was not neccessary. But the fact that I actually had a plan in this moment kept me "in State" and in control of my emotions, which is quite important (frame).

But as mentioned before, forget about that water bottle, because we resumed touching each other at neck and hair, kissing included (to say farewell?) and I eventually got a boner. A few more minutes of constant licking later I thought "fuck it" and lead her hand to my pants. There was no resistance, just the opposite. She does a great handjob and I almost came on the spot while I saw her smiling and finally heard the redemptive words: "Seems to be a little uncomfortable here, don't you think?" "Ok, so let's go upstairs!" I said. She agreed, but I still saw some hesitation at her face and before she could come along with that "I still need time" bullshit again and to avoid any LMR in advance, I said: "Listen! We just need a better place to make out (plausible deniability). I don't want you to do anything you aren't comfortable with." (thanks to "Above The Game" - Part 7)

We finally entered her apartment and there was no reason for me to start from scratch now. She offered some drinks and stuff but she was on buying temperature long ago and her big couch was screaming loud for some action and fun. A few minutes and french kisses later, my mouth and hands drive forward to some other regions of her body (9. Kissing Her Neck, 10. Touching the Bare Skin of Her Back). "Aha, just kissing?" she asked while grinning and I answered: "Sure, but I did not mention where all over exactly :)" Then I took off her top and continued (12. Kissing her Body). This went on and on for many minutes till she called for a blanket, so we changed location to her bedroom.

Lying half-naked in her bed I didn't care much about the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder anymore and did my own thing. We really took our time with everything und the 'real' F-Close eventually happened later on in that night. I just had 2 rubbers with me so there was another F-Close in the morning and that's it. I know you guys wanna hear "F-Close!" at this point so there you have it. That being said, I'd rather put it like this: We didn't really sleep that much :)

Ok, I should probably mention this detail anyway: This girl blows like a queen, no kidding! I didn't think, that differences can be so remarkable when it comes down to cocksucking, but that was really awesome! And it perpetuates a cliche, because she looks so young and innocent, but when she starts blowing I was like "What the he..!!" Don't get me wrong guys. I fortuately had that pleasure with several girls but THIS one was outstanding! Ok, I could probably talk for hours about it but I think you get my point: She did a FANTASTIC blowjob - Period.

The next day we ordered some food, watched a movie and again we were not able to take the hands off each other. I drove home in the afternoon and she intended to visit me next time. Later on she sent a text message where she gave profuse thanks to me you for the great "performance" (she really used the german word "Einsatz") and the wonderful time in the last two days and how I turned her head upside down etc. It was a great experience for me as well and I had an awesome weekend.