Is it still plausible to pick up women in my current living condition?

Duder113 · 2014-11-30T05:37:55+00:00

Dude, you're 21. It's fine. Go with it. I was subletting my living room the same way to a guy, and he was CRUSHING pussy in there.

transintraining · 2014-12-01T17:04:05+00:00

I'm 27 and just moved back into my parents to save money while I look for a new job. I'm 27 and I do not have my own room. My sister used it for sewing and my mom is an at home medical coder so those two are in an out of there as early as 6am every-fucking-morning.

At first my thought was "damn this is going to be embarrassing, i can't tell any women about this they'll think im a total loser!"

And then I went out in my old town, ran into a couple of old friends who were still in the same mindset and situation as when I left. I had a huge blast and was raking in little kisses, grabs, dances, compliments, flirts for all sorts of women there... one demanded I take her home with me and I obliged.

By the next morning my mom busted in the room with a plate of ham and eggs for me cause my mommy is the bomb. She walked in and was obviously shocked and embarrassed. I introduced her to this random woman I just spent all night fucking and grabbed the plate of breakfast.

So me and the girl sat eating eggs and ham watching some netflix until noon buck-ass naked in my bed while my mom awkwardly clacked away at her computer 4 feet away. The girl left at some point without ever asking wtf my living situation was and I honestly just couldn't give a fuck if she did.

The point of this story is the only thing that can embarrass you is you. You're the on that lets it affect you. If you learn to not give a fuck then it will not be embarrassing.

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-11-30T06:04:35+00:00

Do you have 40 minutes to spare?

zer0gravity1234 · 2014-11-30T06:51:28+00:00

I used to have a similar fear at university, what would girls say if I brought them back to my dilapidated dorm room with my bed on risers?

Eventually I figured out that if they're going back with you, they've already committed, and it'll take something much more significant to get them to change their mind. If you make a big deal about it they might see it as a big deal, but if you own it they won't think twice about your living arrangements.

edbenz · 2014-12-01T12:06:23+00:00

I always go to her place

Title	Is it still plausible to pick up women in my current living condition?
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Date	November 30, 2014 5:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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