I feel like I've gotten too caught up in gaming a girl I'm with that I haven't even bothered to show genuine affection. Also after having been in the game this long, I've met a bunch of great friends - male and female. This girl that I'm genuinely into (bordering oneitis) I can tell is definitely into me, but I think I'm putting her off/intimidating her because she probably sees me as a badass player type (success!). Shes noticed girls (friends) texting me, and she's seen me in pictures with different girls.

But the good guy in me makes me want her to feel more comfortable. Would it be ok to show a touch of clinginess at this point?