How to transist during a conversation

VINCE_C_ · 2015-01-02T20:28:06+00:00

Start talking smooth, change the tone a little and gotta go for the kino. No kino, no kissing. But it should be gradual. The best thing is if you are able to establish touching as a fair game right at the start when you meet her.

eldiadelabestia · 2015-01-02T20:46:34+00:00

i need this. Just talking is easy...

domo94 · 2015-01-04T01:48:40+00:00

You don't need transitions.

Nothing, nada.

Talk about anything, keep rapport, sexual tension, and keep the conversation escalating.

As for the kissing- you can kiss her mid sentence as long as attraction and sexual tension is enough, which doesn't require a lot, just do it right.

new_cummer · 2015-01-03T05:14:55+00:00

Building rapport is great but guys new to the game fall prey to its comfort. You HAVE to break rapport and escalate sexually if you want to take her home. If you're not yet adept enough to escalate sexually on the spot just have a back up story ready before hand.

Something like you're a girl right? she'll smile and say something like "i think so" or just "yes" or if she's a badass "may be" and that's a freeway into some gropeage but continuing. So on my way home from work today I saw this girl standing naked by a window and she clearly saw me looking at her but she didn't move. I was so confused and aroused at the same time. What do you think was going through her head? Have you ever done anything naughty like that? And just like that you've changed the subject to sex while being funny and not coming across as creepy or desperate.

If you're telling her a secret of some sort lean over and whisper into her ear and put your hand on her shoulder.

3 questions is a great game. 1st question should be boring/rapporty but after that you can just ask something sexual like first kiss story if you have a really good one of yours (i know i do) or if she gives a bit of an adventurous vibe you can ask if she's every had sex in public spaces or tell me the craziest thing you've done? and as she's about to say something interrupt her and ask if she's ever been with a girl and regardless of her reply share your bi experiences or your friends or a movie etc.

You might feel uncomfortable asking these questions first few times but they're part of the game and girls who seem cool and are attractive expect them to some extent. You just have to ask them with a big cheesy grin and a truck load of confidence. Also these questions may fire back in the shape of a shit test, watch out for those. You can read all about them in the side bar.

If you're going to get a drink just grab her by the hand. If the place is crowded tell her to hold on to you or sometimes I put the girl in front and place my hands on her hips while casually gripping her ass sometimes. If it's a house party with couches make sure you sit right next to her. If someone you talked to earlier passes by you just grab them by the hand and gently seat them on your lap (just don't have a boner). It's a totally acceptable etiquette at house parties.

If you're sitting next to her and you lean back on a squishy couch she'll be kind of drawn into you and if she likes you she'll be comfortable enough to lean back as well. It's a totally under the radar move. If she's not comfortable she might re-position but whatever, never hesitate to escalate because girls are lightning fast at picking up on hesitation/shyness and it's a major turn off.

Obviously the amount of touching depends on the how long you've been talking and how much alcohol is involved but I generally start escalating about 10-15 min in because frankly I get bored just talking after a while. Escalating is like a game, once you know the rules and how to bend them in your favor you'll love it.

Smoking is a great way to isolate if you both smoke. There's usually an awkward silence because in isolation you can actually feel the sexual tension that you've built up. Just look at her and smile and usually she'll say "what?" with a smile of her own. Compliment her lips or something and follow up with your first kiss story if you have a good one that segues into an actual kiss. Don't overdo it with compliments.

PS: The difference between sleezy and smooth is timing.

Title	How to transist during a conversation
Author	lukey99
Upvotes	7
Comments	4
Date	January 2, 2015 7:39 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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