In thinking about improving my game, (going out and approaching girls to hopefully starting some type of future relationship with some of them), The question comes to mind what would i do with a successful set if i managed to find one?
Will a lack of social proof for someone without a good social circle or friends hurt their ability to cultivate relationships with girls they approach? When i describe "a Lack of friends or a good social circle" consider the following situations:
- Someone who just moved to a new place and does not know anyone.
- Someone who's friends are more on the nerdy intellectual side and do not engage in social activities that most girls will be interested in.
- Someone who has never had many friends or a strong social circle and has maybe 1 or 2 friends that he is not extremely close to.
Someone in these types of situations will most likely be alone most if not all of the time that he is trying to pick up girls, and he will also have very few if any social venues or gatherings that he can invite or pull girls to.
Personally my situation falls under the last two examples. Do you think this poses a problem? Do i need to find a group of alpha males to hang out with? How will this effect my game and relationships?
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