Last minute tips for first date (ever)?

highhopes01 · 2015-01-13T23:25:52+00:00

Just relax. Be natural. Keep her talking about herself which will make her feel open with you and give you some rapport. Have fun most importantly.

This is your first date ever. This is a learning experience for you. This is the first of many. There is no failure, just learning and growth. Embrace that mindset and you will be fine.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-01-13T23:40:35+00:00

Don't worry about last minute tips. Just relax, have fun, and be open.

trauma_gland · 2015-01-14T00:26:00+00:00

Don't worry about getting laid, that's not your goal tomorrow night. You've already made a huge step in your path of personal progress I think all you should do is enjoy the night with this lady. There's no need to put further pressure on yourself and expectations on the interaction. Go into this date empty minded. That is, no expectations, no desires to make her like you, and no worrying if she'll like you or anything like that.

As for actual tips during the date. Listen. It's my goal in any interaction with women (men too) to get them to talk more than I do. People love talking about themselves so if you can get this girl off and running about her life and her passions that it should be great for both of you. Ask good questions and listen intently. Also, another very important thing is eye contact. Maintain a good amount with her throughout the night.

I'm not going to add more to these tips. This is your first night and I think you deserve to relax and enjoy it. I'd really hate for you to go into this experience all tense and worried that you need to act a certain way. Just have fun and enjoy her.

Title	Last minute tips for first date (ever)?
Author	changeiscomming
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	January 13, 2015 11:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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