A girl pulled me to dance at a bar. I rejected her cause irk how to dance. Pls help me

viksenpai · 2015-01-18T04:12:49+00:00

Never say no to something like that. I did wayyy back in middle school when my crush asked me...instant and long-term regret.

Now I just dance whenever and I'm not even good at it. I don't give a shit anymore. You shouldn't either. It won't kill you to look like an idiot, because honestly who will care what you're doing as long as you are having a good time?

impulsenine · 2015-01-18T04:01:24+00:00

Ask her to teach you! Seemed obvious to me.

seducemeseddit · 2015-01-18T04:14:45+00:00

Just dance, man. Who gives a shit if you're good? I know I'm horrible. I have my own dance style. It's called the Epileptic Pool Noodle and I practice every night before bed.

lilhurt38 · 2015-01-18T06:01:52+00:00

I dance all the time when I go out. Put out your hand. She'll probably offer hers, especially if she just pulled you up to the dance floor. Spin her. Now you've got control and you can lead her. Do what you want with her now. I'll usually pull the girl into me and playfully push her away.

dodged_that_one · 2015-01-19T18:32:26+00:00

Seriously, take dance classes. It is ALL win.

Firstly, you get to improve your dancing. You'll move from being like everyone else just more of less convulsing in rhythm to being able to do some steps and it will make you move better.

Most importantly it is a GREAT way to meet girls and practice charming them. They are all yours for 5 minutes and you have a subject to talk about, enforced kino, all barriers down and...well it's just perfect. Well, almost perfect. You don't always get the perfect partner, but you can still work on making them laugh both for practice and the girl who is next in line to dance with you will be looking at the pair of you to judge what's in her future. If she sees you being entertaining, demonstrating value and having fun, she will be in that frame of mind as soon as she is standing opposite you.

I'm taking salsa classes. It's pretty dirty dancing. Go for it!

tulio2 · 2015-01-18T19:02:13+00:00

get out there... cut loose... dance bad... and. own. it.

baguette180 · 2015-01-19T00:06:37+00:00

umm learn to dance. you can look it up on youtube, or take classes, or have friends show you. or ask strangers to teach you.

thawrestla · 2015-01-18T09:41:14+00:00

lol i know this feeling

i used to be the shittest dancer ever and required to be a fair bit drunk. many times a chick would pull me for a dance and they'd be busting some serious moves while im just there wobbling a bit like a fucken retarded salmon. of course they'd leave after a while.

im still a pretty crap dancer but ive gotten better over the years and genuinely have a good time when going out. when a chicky pulls up these days i just chill and have fun

Title	A girl pulled me to dance at a bar. I rejected her cause irk how to dance. Pls help me
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Date	January 18, 2015 3:37 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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