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[–]jackbrux27 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Ask her to come to your place, get takeaway food or cook her something, watch a movie
[–]bananabreadmuffins 7 points8 points9 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Spice it up! Get a little more personal with this date. Clearly things are going well. Go to SeaWorld, volunteer somewhere, do something out of the norm and she will very much appreciate it. Also be ready to make a move the third time around.
[–]SilverSpoonerism 8 points9 points10 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Also be ready to make a move the third time around.
Agreed. It's the perfect time to get more intimate with each other, you're on date 3 - it's the goldilocks zone - she knows you aren't a creep and you have made it this far so you both clearly like each other.
Best of luck to you
[–]jigh_ant 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The goldilocks zone, I like it.
[–]bewildo2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
SeaWorld, really? watch 'Blackfish' and you will never go again..
[–]Bubaloo96 13 points14 points15 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take her to seaworld and protest the captivity of orcas. Best of both worlds
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Valid point here. Probably best to avoid an activity or place that could be considered controversial.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
If you're asking for ideas, I like rock climbing, skiing/snowboarding, concerts (or festivals), wacky museums, yoga...
So if I feel like it, I might invite a girl to share in one of those experiences with me. And that tends to be much more effective at exposing my passions than the traditional sort of dinner-and-a-movie type date. You can still have dinner afterwards and it becomes like 2 or 3 dates in one. (I'm sort of known for marathon dates hahaha)
Just kind of "doing what I want" has worked well enough for me so far.
[–]abandonliberty 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Best response I've read here in a while.
[–]thenarrrowpath 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text: "Hey I'm having a chill night. Just Netflix, wine, maybe a pizza. You should join."
[+]1nfinity0nhigh -7 points-6 points-5 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The difference between the 2nd and 3rd date is that by the third you both should have fucked.
[–]CharlieTango -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Aaaaaand thats why youre on r/seduction
[–]1nfinity0nhigh -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
95% of the time, if I go on a 2nd date, I get laid that night.
In the few cases where I didn't already on the first.
You dumbfuck beta cuck
[–]CharlieTango -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cool story
Its not about what number date youre on. This kind of redpill bullshit is what makes females so unreceptive to any kind of male attention, but you go ahead and do you. Good luck on the whole happiness thing
[–]1nfinity0nhigh 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's about finding a partner that values sex just as much as you do, which is a necessity of a healthy relationship. If your partner doesn't want to fuck you after your 2nd date, she probably doesn't value sex that much, you're probably not going to have much sex in your relationship.
Good luck being a beta cuck.
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