Been slacking in Field Reports. The last one I wrote was 8 days ago. Last weekend it was kinda dead in my city and so I didn't really get many opportunities to approach. It was an okay time.

I went out the club last Saturday and I approached every single hot girl or tried to. It's always so damn hard to get them to throw me IOIs, even when I'm dancing.

I got a lot of dudes to dance near me and throw me value and validation, and that was all cool or w/e... No big deal. Eventually I got a couple of girls who enjoyed my company. One of them was super hot. Guys were approaching us 3 all night, and I would combat with them. I realized that, these guys aren't studying this shit like me. I could just walk in and shatter their reality... So I would do that. As they approached, I approached faster, and forced them out of the way. Dis my house bitch. Nothing happened to me all night with anyone, and I went home. Honestly, I did have a fun time though.

This week I went out Wednesday, Thursday and Friday. I'm going out again in 30 minutes as soon as I finish this field report.

It was a very interesting and boring week to say the least.

Wednesday I went to this local bar that has Karaoke. It was packed as shit. I was trying to get into state and just dance around and have fun. I approached as many people as possible, danced with as many girls as possible, and tried to just have as much fun as possible.

The more I go out, the more I learn about women and how totally different they really are. How totally different from me they are, and how totally different was my original perception.

I'm starting to understand that women are more insecure then men because men have a natural Masculinity about them that makes them already just by the image alone, a Fighter for The Tribe. And women, by image alone, have a more feminine energy about them, which they are keenly aware of. We all know that we have the limitless potential for any skill, but I'm just talking about the natural influence of sexuality.

I've been challenging myself more and more to go past my limitations of eye contact, kino escalation, seeing how long I can just be chill for, and forcing myself to stop moving around the place in the club until I can accept the moment more. It's definitely been difficult. I still retreat to Mr. Party Time All The Time Guy when I can't just talk to people...

I'm noticing my tollerance for pain from the outside is extremely strong now. Now when girls reject me to my face, into my eyes, I stare back for an extra moment or 2, just for myself... To make it known that I don't care. Other times when I get rejected, I stay in there and try to work with it, and try to ignore their assumptions about myself. I've been actively trying to not think about or pay attention to my mental movies, and instead to consciously repeat to myself, "They don't know you, or anything about you!"

I danced with a few girls, tried to make some conversation by doing some interview questions, but it never goes anywhere. Maybe I should try leading more by toning down the energy and starting more conversation or listening to them more...

One girl I danced with, I was trying to read her all night. She would dance with me, then separate and go away, then she would try to dance away from me or facing away from me, then I would move and she would move her position and be dancing near me... And then I would dance with her again and she would again move away eventually... Eventually I just thought, "Fuck it, she doesn't want me. Why the hell should I keep pursuing."

I tried to approach other really really hot girls, and none of them really responded to me. I wrote all of them off. They weren't really giving me any IOIs... Even when I would dance and sing and try to throw value. They wouldn't look at me. Or they would look at me and then quickly look away. I talked to my friend about this, and he says that girls will almost always look away because they actually aren't confident enough to continue looking back. He said, to continue looking at them, and see if they look back again, then approach. Perhaps... All night I felt rejected.

Finally this really cute blonde girl, whom I've talked to in the past is at the bar dancing. She doesn't remember me even though we've met a dozen times...

This reminds me of me and when I get approached by people whom I don't know. I realized that it's because I didn't present to her enough value and emotional stimulation... So I decided to go for it eventually. I danced near her, she took noticed and gave value back, I grabbed her hand and we started dancing. Simple approach I've done many times before.

During the dancing, I'm doing kino escalation, like moving my body with hers, then leading the dancing... I would get very low to the ground with her, and really sway our hips widely to show her how I can fuck the shit out of her. I started to even consciously think, "I wanna fuck the shit out of you."

She says she wants to get a drink. I didn't read into this like I always did, fuck it! I went with her, rather, leading her to the bar. I bought her the drink, tipped 3 dollars. She drank at the bar while I flirted with her, rubbing her legs and trying to have some basic conversation with her. We took some pictures, she kissed me on the cheek, I did the same to her. I didn't want to make any high risk moves here, because I felt that I would have less of a chance of her rejecting me and more of a chance at fucking her in maybe like a few weeks from now then if I were to just go in and start making out... And i could even turn her into a fuck buddy. Also, at the bar, we were in isolation. Her friend came by eventually to just see how she was doing with me. Obviously everything was fine and her paranoid friend started to chill out.

I made sure to keep cool all night. If she separated from me, moved away from me, or anything away from me, I will not follow her, I will remain where I am and continue having fun.

She did in fact do all those things as predicted. I realized, I have to show her I'm not a mosquito. I kept it cool, and in about 5 minutes, went over to her, flirtatiously, and started dancing with her.

Things were going well. She wasn't turned off by anything I was doing. I kept calling her sexy, and trying to figure out when "I want to kiss her" and how she would want it. I didn't want to do it in front of her friends because she'd be insecure about it. Instead, I got her number! I sent her the pictures of us immediately.

Then I continued playing it cool all night. At the end of her night, she had to go get he coat, which was very far from her friends. I followed her. I was going to give her a goodbye hug and a kiss. She put on her coat, gave me a hug, then I placed me hands gently bit firmly on the sides of her face, and pulled our faces closer to kiss her. The first kiss, she kinda sucked her lips in... I took as, "oh man, not now." So I backed up. She looked at me and smiled. I smiled back. And I went in again for a kiss. This time she was more relaxed and letting me do it more. Then she left.

The next day at 12:05 pm I text her with, "Hey xxxx, it was nice seeing you last night"

No response.

I remember one time this night, I tried to pull a girl on the dance floor and her big fat girlfriend came up to me and tried to defend her and be confident and yelled at me with a small tint of fear, "Hey man, why don't you just fuck off"...

I didn't wanna deal with her, so I just said, "I'm sorry." and let her go on her own miserable way.

It was a lot of fun when I was dancing with that girl that gave me her number because I was dancing almost also "in the way" of all the hot blonde girls that rejected me or didn't look at me. They were trying to squeeze by or around me, and I had this hot girl dancing with me. It was like to me, "in yo face bitches! you could've had this, and you turned it away!

Thursday was another interesting day. I just went to this local bar that had live band karaoke.

This night I got 2 numbers. It was kinda dead, but I saw this one really hot Indian girl sitting with her friend. I don't know what I came over me, but I thought I knew her... I didn't. So I went in anyways and said, "Heyyyy!" as if expecting her to remember me. They looked at each other confused. "You don't remember me?" She was sitting with her girl friend.

F: No.

M: Wow, I guess I thought you were someone else.

F: Yea. We've never met.

M: Well, then, it's a pleasure meeting you for the first time. I'm Alex.

They give me their names. I ask a few interview questions, and remain chill. I talk about whatever they say, say a little bit about myself in relation to it. I make sure to talk about "fun" stuff, or stuff that everyone could enjoy, like music, movies, dancing, cool events, drinks, drugs, w/e people enjoy...

Finally she throws me a shit test.

F: Well it was a pleasure meeting you. I came out with my friend, and I really want to hang out with her. There are plenty of other single girls out here who want to meet a guy.

M: Wait a minute. Now what I'm about to say is going to blow your mind. First off, I didn't even bring up flirting with girls or doing trying to get laid. I'm just here to have a good time, make some friends, and really just have fun. You brought it up, that means you were thinking about it, not me!

She starts to blush.

F: Okay, well then go dance over there.

M: I don't have to dance over there. I could do whatever I want. I'm just talking to you, and right now that's what I want to do.

She starts laughing almost as if I'm taking this way too seriously...

M: Becides, why would I want to go dance over there with those girls, when I am already with one who is as beautiful as you.

She blushes.

F: Okay, go! Go get your girl!

M: Who do you think I am!? You think I just go up to every girl, take my dick out and hump them?

She nodds.

M: No! I'm picky. If I see a girl I like, I'm going to approach her, because I want her. I chose you, I want you.

F: Oh really.

She's giving me these googly eyes of mystery.

M: Oh yeah.

She breaks state, and goes back into qualification.

M: I want your number so I can see you again sometime.

F: Okay! Maybe! I'll give you my number, maybe!

She gets up and walks away a few feet. I follow her. She turns around after getting something from her coat and I'm talking to her. I'm in isolation bitches! She tries to go back to her friend. She's an HB10 btw. I tell her, "Wait. I just want to talk to you."

F: I have to go back to my friend.

I look at her friend, give her the "Two minute" finger and say, "Just give me 2 minutes."

F: Just 2 minutes. So I can clock you?

M: Yes, 2 minutes. Go.

Her friend pretends to clock me.

M: Baby, listen, I want you. You're really fucking sexy. I want to take you out and just have a really nice and fun time with you. We're going to leave this bar and likely never see each other again, unless you give me your number.

She laughs.

M: And I want to see you again.

F: Okay.

She gives me her number.

M: Okay, now lets plan our date.

F: What?

M: Yea, I wanna take you out. When are you free?

F: How about next weekend.

M: Next Saturday at 9pm.

F: Okay.

I leave them and tell them that maybe we'll hang out later. They leave.

The next day I text her with, "Hey xxxx, It was fun meeting you last night."

No response. 4 hours later I send her another text, "Have a happy friday!" with a picture attached of me in the club with all my peoples.

All night, nothing much is really going on. I'm just dancing around, throwing value, approaching anyone.

Finally, this one girl I think is okay looking, HB7 is hanging out. I throw her value from time to time, then I start dancing with her. She's a bit shy, but I'm leading the situation. I'm making her reality cool. She starts to have fun and laughs whenever I throw her value. Things are going well. I do some flirtations with her and some kino escalation. I kept trying to kiss her, but I would do it with an introduction each time which made her not wanna do it, plus we were around her friends and I had a hard time isolating her.

Finally, I told her that we should get some air. We leave the bar, but her friends come too. I isolate her a couple feet away, and again introduce the kiss like, "You know what I wanna do right now? Kiss those sexy lips of yours." Then I would just go for it. She backed away, but didn't like push me away completely. Like she wanted me to try a different way. I got her number and called her immediately. Then one of my PUA friends who kinda sucks joins the bandwagon trying to flirt with anyone he can, and is severely breaking the moment with random questions like, "Hey, can any of you imagine Ghost Porn and what it would look like?"

He also has a very soft voice and it's often hard for me to hear what he says. That time, I thought he had just asked to talk about, Porn. I felt that on some level, that's what he's thinking about... Sex... Which is why he wasn't in state. He was really in his head and thinking too much, where I was just flowing.

I tell her I wanna get her on a date. I ask her when she's available. She says, "Monday."

I tell her, "Okay, Monday, 9pm."

I went home, and this last chick texts me, "Heyy=). Just got home."

Daaaaaayum.

I was sleeping by then. I woke up and got the text. I just quickly confirm the date with her in the text and stop talking to her. Then she goes, "So how was your night?"

Wtf? I barely know this girl and she wants to start texting back and forth. I would respond, with a little subtle sexual innuendo in my texts.

"I had a blast! After I just went home to sleep... Naked... ;)"

Then she starts telling me all about her plans that day, and what she might wana do, and what's stopping her, where she usually likes to go. We talk a little about last night and how it went... I would try teasing her a little, and she could never take it. I started to slowly realize just how insecure this poor little girl is. I've had worse tests then what I was throwing... She ends up requesting the location of the date.

Then she calls me... And is talking to me about nothing, and I'm just "uh hu"ing her, because I honestly don't give a shit! i don't even know this girl, i met her one time, we danced, had a few short conversations in person about nothing, I asked her on a date, and now she is addicted to talking to me...

I get tired of it all and i end it with, "Okay, so I gotta go. But I will see you on Monday at 9pm."

She sounds a little upset or worried like as if she thinks she turned me off a little, which i guess is true... I can tell she's the type to get really clingy fast and probably not approve of my seduction lifestyle, even though I could probably make her squirt and give her the most permanent self confidence she's ever had.

So I'm trying to play it cool, and lead it into the situation I want to lead it in.

Part II when I get home tonight.