How to go for the kiss

2015-02-08T23:46:44+00:00

The key thing is that you don't wait for a "perfect moment" to go for the kiss. When you feel you've established enough comfort, just go for it. Shut up and kiss her.

extract_ · 2015-02-08T21:24:28+00:00

If it's a club or a bar, keep talking in their ear and eventually make eye contact after saying something and go for it.

That or go to the dance floor n grind. Wait for a slow song, turn her around and eventually go for it. If there are no slow songs, kiss her neck and if she's chill with that, go for it.

edit: whispering -> saying something

Throwaway_d · 2015-02-09T16:33:14+00:00

I'll give you advice which is easy but at the same time a bit harder (because it's quite bold).

Wait for a moment when there is a bit of tension. Pause for her a second. Grab her by her waist or her belt/waistband and pull her into you, caveman-style.

I do this almost every time I make out with a girl for the first time. It's cool as fuck, it shows you have balls, and girls love it. I have had girls tell me how much it turned them on.

If you can't reach her waist you can also just grab her chair and pull it towards you.

2015-02-09T00:41:04+00:00

If you have an easy time talking to girls then all you have to do is flirt and make it clear that you are interested before going for the kiss. I always make an attempt to get a girl on her own (if we're in a social setting) before, "hey do you wanna come check out ____ with me?" Or even "hey do you wanna go some place quiet to talk?" If she says yes she's interested. Just make eye contact during a pause in conversation and go for it.

ninja-1000 · 2015-02-09T01:45:11+00:00

Wait for a conversation pause, lock eyes, smile, put your hand gently on her leg or hand and leanin. Kiss her even if she doesnt lean back. Some girls freeze up but if they dont pull away its usually mutual. Just DON'T HESITATE. Do it or don't do it. Your mind needs to be made up before u go for the kiss. If u hesitate it's awkward as fuck. Can still be saved but that was my biggest amateur mistake. Good luck :)

2015-02-09T03:19:48+00:00

You just go for it. Don't wait for a perfect moment, don't wait for when no one's looking. Just go for it.

If she decided to go out on a date with you, there's enough comfort where she didn't leave within the first half hour, and she's smiling laughing and having a good time. There is no reason why you shouldn't kiss her. In fact, it would be WEIRD TO NOT KISS HER.

The worst thing that's going to happen is she might turn her head so you kiss her cheek or she might bob her head away. This has happened to me a few times, and it's never a big deal at all. Don't get butt-hurt either though, just say something along the lines of "I thought we had a nice connection going my bad." If she's not a miserable demented person, she'll completely understand.

2015-02-09T03:31:56+00:00

Getting me and her in a comfortable position for you to initiate kino to lead to a kiss. As a beginner, sitting next to her/standing side by side makes me the most comfortable while face to face feels awkward for me while doing kino. Try those out and adjust to where you feel the most natural.

Sippingin · 2015-02-09T22:33:57+00:00

Just going for the kiss is the best tip. Not only was my kiss a quick smooth kiss, it also left her surprised, smiling, and blushing.

4A-2F · 2015-02-10T03:22:43+00:00

I like the hair touch test. I reach over and move her hair out of her face, or over her ear. If she's comfortable with that, then I go for the kiss. It also helps to have touched her earlier, so the kiss isn't the first physical contact.

TwoAloneOneTogether · 2015-02-08T20:28:26+00:00

Put your lips on her lips.

throwingorgy · 2015-02-09T01:03:52+00:00

I ask if I can kiss her. Usually the woman is clearly indicating that she wants to be kissed so it works every time.

Title	How to go for the kiss
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Date	February 8, 2015 8:10 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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