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[–]IpickupGrandmothers 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
but 60% of the time she doesn't answer.
Move on.
I want to start a conversation without seeming clingy (which I don't think I was before)
Focus on actually not being clingy, rather than merely not appearing clingy. If you're genuinely not clingy, it will come through. Otherwise, you'll have to learn to be a really good actor (completely unsustainable in the long run) or your clinginess will eventually come through.
There should be a lot of texting guides in the sidebar. Might be worth checking out.
[–]allo40 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Texting is for planning things, you shouldn't make small talk over text. Just ask her out. If she is interested she'll say yes but if she isn't interested, she'll probably say that she is busy or that she can't.
[–]youngpua 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would probably try to build some attraction next time we talked in person, suggest we go out sometime then, be told yes hopefully, and if I am...Then I'd just use texting to have a little bit of humor and fun, but focus on being direct with getting the date set up.
[–]bl1y[M] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl
This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)
Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides.
I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE
Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
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