Going from sexual to romantic attraction?

Murmaider · 2015-02-23T04:33:24+00:00

Go about your approach differently. Instead of leading into straight hook ups, go for some dates. Quick question, how are you meeting up with these girls? tinder? From the point you meat them, how long before "you drive them away"?

joshsway · 2015-02-23T15:27:18+00:00

first of all, buy hooking just to confirm you do mean sex right? If not, then it's a totally different story.

cenease · 2015-02-23T21:03:00+00:00

Just a warning from a female: a guy once used all of this shit on me. The kino, the teasing, etc, etc... As an example he once told me, "You know, it's funny we're hooking up, you're really hot but I usually like tall, flat, blondes." (I am a short, busty brunette). He then developed feelings for me and after we got more serious, he admitted that a lot of the things he said/did were basically just to get me into bed and keep me there. When he wanted to get more serious, I couldn't not see him as the d-bag player giving me backhanded compliments

So that being said, if you're going to approach a girl, have a goal in mind and act according to that. If you start off wanting her as a complacent fuck buddy and then all of the sudden fall in love with her, she may not be able to get past her old image of you.

edit: I also want to add that a lot of the things on this subreddit are EXTREMELY transparent, but that isn't necessarily a bad thing. Just because someone knows these techniques are being used on them doesn't mean it won't work. It's sort of a way of saying, "Yes, we both know what's going on here but we're going to be cool and classy and not say it directly."

ALTE12EGO · 2015-02-23T12:36:20+00:00

after sex, play with her hair, look her in the eyes more and cuddle her.

simplyaguyonline · 2015-02-23T19:28:46+00:00

Yeah, be a regular Joe nice guy. Find a girl looking for a security blanket, not a guy who can throw the D.

Title	Going from sexual to romantic attraction?
Author	xGrimtoothx
Upvotes	10
Comments	11
Date	February 23, 2015 4:12 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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