Okay so Im not looking for specific advice on the girls mindset, but I am am looking for advice on what I should do with this girl. Deep down I know she likes me, this is due to her actions showing that she likes me, but then over text she says she doesnt like me. What would you guys do, if you liked her? Okay so I went out with her twice and these are the signs

  • I showed her a child pic of me, she said she wants her future kids to look like me

  • she is always touching me, My body, my legs face and my beard. Anything she finds interesting

  • She has said I have cute eyes and nose.

  • She will let me touch her, inner legs, face, hair, waist.

  • There is a girl who likes me at college (B), (A) she is always asking about her, and when is say I dont like her but make positive comments about her, she will just change the subject.

  • (A)she was jealous when I flirted with a bartender who is my friend (C). The next day she (A) mentioned it twice despite me changing the subject the first time. (can show copy of texts for context if needed)

  • She described what the girl who likes me looks like, Im not even sure when she saw her

  • I added her flatmate on FB and she she sent me a text asking how I found her?( she is basically saying why I added her).

  • She kissed me 3 times the other night when I was drunk. Not on the lips. But these kisses were lingering and soft. Not quick pecks you give family members over christmas

  • she let me put my head in her lap

  • She told me a secret about mental health, and said the only person she has told was her first crush.

  • Once I teased her pushed her away, I laid on the sofa, she came and laid on top of me.

So after all these signs, and all my friends agreed she must like me. She then goes and says she does not see me in this way, but would love to see me again. All these signs of attraction. And she is proactive as she will text me and ask me out.

At first I thought she is leading me on for an ego boost, but this girl is not egotisical. She is shy, and prefers to be alone. She is always alone at college, and her only close friends are her room mates. She has never been in a relationship.

She doesnt act like this around other guys. She says she is shy, which is true, but for me, she has never been shy, even the first day we met.