What are common shit tests after you've been in an established relationship with a girl for a couple of years?

DaygameCoach · 2015-04-16T23:07:01+00:00

i doubt the concept is very relevant if you're already in a relationship.

girls in relationships might try to trick you into giving "wrong" answers to find a reason to be mad (probably seeking attention). I'd say that's something different. there are questions or traps that you shouldn't answer at all (don't need to answer everything), where there is no right answers, only wrong ones.

SgtSplacker · 2015-04-17T03:07:30+00:00

Shit tests??

Talking with a dude in front of you, being just flirty enough to piss you off.

Denying you sex because of some stupid reason that doesn't make sense.

Ordering food you are paying for and not wanting to eat it.

Trying to control you.

General bitching.

Insulting you.

Degrading you.

Emasculating you.

Hitting you.

Going out too much without you.

Hanging out with dudes that are attracted to her and calling them friends.

Obligating you to buy her friends food or drink in a sneaky way.

Making you look bad in front of your friends and family.

Women do things to see if you are a pussy or not and those things are called shit tests. If you fail them you will lose her respect and be her bitch. If you pass them, you are respected until you fail some. They never end.

I think these things are the worst part of dating honestly. You become some kind of animal ready to walk out or tell someone to fuck off at any moment. If I ask you out, pick you up, pay for you, it's a fucking date we are not just friends hanging out. I don't pay for my friends like that, so why should I treat you like that? If you are a woman and a guy is paying for your stuff that means he is trying to impress you because he likes you. IF YOU DO NOT LIKE HIM THEN DO NOT ACCEPT HIS GIFTS. It's so easy but greed always trumps consideration at the bar unfortunately.

People just need to act in such a way that if everyone acted that way the world would work. And not be some piece of deceptive shit planet. I have seen relationships where the man has failed and his woman will always do things to show she is the boss when they are in front of people. It's horrible, men can lead and not have to degrade those that are with them. Women have a hard time leading with virtue and respect.

I've had women I had no interest in ask to take me places, I would never accept, eat her food, then go game some other female at a bar and women do that all the time.

sebs123 · 2015-04-17T01:49:03+00:00

Great question! Though, try to add more details so we can help you with that subject.

recyclablebantha · 2015-04-17T05:19:08+00:00

This is WAY too vague. Could you outline which "tests" you think she is using on you? And what your responses were? Use as much detail as possible. We are good here, but we're not psychic and knowing more details helps us to help you.

IpickupGrandmothers · 2015-04-17T02:05:52+00:00

Hold the phone here.

What do you mean by "shit test" and why do you need responses? Do you just want some light-hearted ammo when y'all are doing some friendly teasing? Or do you want cool one-liners so you feel like you can "win" an interaction?

In a good relationship, you shouldn't need to deal with shit tests unless we're just talking about friendly teasing. Otherwise, all you're saying is that your relationship has poor communication and a bunch of pettiness.

Don't try to "game" your relationship. Yes, you do need to maintain your relationship by being on top of your overall life, but don't look at your relationship as something you need to "game" per se. That's just some fake shit. It just causes more bullshit and drama. Playing games is a waste of time. Especially in a relationship.

Don't fuck with no basic-ass bitches. And you yourself shouldn't be a basic-ass dude. At least, that's how I view things.

Title	What are common shit tests after you've been in an established relationship with a girl for a couple of years?
Author	throwitquick
Upvotes	15
Comments	11
Date	April 16, 2015 10:47 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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