Hi guys. First of all, this is a throwaway. Second of all, I need some real advice, I am passing through a state in which I do not know what's happening with me. As a bit of background, I am a 21 year old dude. I have been doing "nofap" since the beginning of this year, and I clearly see a lot of self improvements in matters such as personal development and better concentration/energy. Before doing nofap, I never had a gf, only failed attempts of hooking up, the furthest i got with a girl was to finger her, and then she dumped my sorry ass, and never contacted me again. Now after doing the nofap, 4 months more or less into it, and with the help of this thread, I decided it is time to try my hand at conquering some women souls and get myself a nice gf, or at least to get laid for once. In 1 week I managed to make out with two girls, which a few weeks back would have been absolutely impossible for me. I am not attractive as far as I see myself, I am just skin and bones and getting bold from this age, but girls see me as this highly inteligent dude that likes to joke about everything, and I somehow manage to make myself pleasant amongst them, laughing everytime with me, or at me xD, OR SO I HOPE. Now what I want to ask your advice about is the following thing. I have had amazing first dates with these two last girls, like getting into social activities and meeting other people, partying together, or just spending time alone, slowly caressing eachoter, eye-fucking. After the first date with girl A, with whom I've been talking to for months now, just stopped writing to me, and also stopped seeing me. I would ask her out, and she would invent all kinds of excuses not to see me, like she is sick, or that she can't do it today, but tomorrow is fine, and then some other things. After the second date with girl B, same exact thing happens, she just stopped answering my messages, I called her last night to meet up, and her tone clearly indicated that something was off, but I have no idea if it is MY FAULT, or it is something I did. It is just so weird that I had the most amazing time with both of them, being a gentleman, eating, drinking, talking for hours, cuddling, kissing, and now suddenly they both avoid me. What am I doing wrong seddit?

I care to add that when I ask them out i text them, or call them, asking them if they are free in the respective evening, if said yes, I offer a time and a place to go for a drink. It worked so far, why doesn't it work from now on? Maybe they are just bored of me? Maybe I am the boring one?

It hurts a lot for my self esteem, and I am aware that there are other girls that I can always switch to and ask out, it is an endless source of them, but how do I know if something is wrong with me?