Looking for looks

DaygameCoach · 2015-05-12T13:49:08+00:00

Open regardless of IOIs or approachable/open body language. The only difference would be if you wanted to open direct when getting IOIs and indirect playful otherwise, but open open open anyway. A lot of women won't IOI you until you open them.

Read these books for body language cues/pictures: Superflirt & Superdate. Both are available on amazon used for a few pennies plus $4 shipping. You Say More Than You Think is good too.

BTW, a good IOI is when you make eye contact......women looking down and back up a you Strong eye contact is good too.

Cuisine, Daygamer.net

footlong24seven · 2015-05-12T20:26:52+00:00

Umm ok I think I can maybe just give some first-hand stuff here for how I spot:

In a bar. Dance floor. I grab a beer first. Scan the room. The single girls are there. Where do you find them? Find the groups mixed with men, the couples. They're out. Cancel them from your scan. Look over there? See those two girls in skirts sipping their drinks, dancing with just each other? Target acquired. Girl sitting at the stool, across from her is no jacket or phone or any indication someone is sitting there? Target acquired. Girls leaving the bar, in a group, no men with them? Target acquired.

When I was in Vegas, I refused to pay the insane club fees. $100-150 entry. Kiss my ass. I sat outside the exit at the penny slots slamming down drinks. Party's over at 2am and the people spill out. Couples start walking, hands are being held. Long list of people paired up. But then, I would eventually see a group of girls walking out of there. No man. They lucked out. Target acquired.

Day game? That's easy. I walk down the street and make eye contact as I pass. No eye contact, no go. If there is eye contact, I shoot a smile. If she smiles back, I say, "Hello."

If she's hot, and on her phone with headphones, and she's too good to miss out, I'll just put my hand out, like a traffic officer. Force her to stop. Then I say something like, "Dude, I just had to say hello you're so pretty".

If I step on the subway train, I see who looks at me right away. I'm tall and hard to miss. But some girls unknowingly fidget when they see me. Flick their hair. Sit up straight. Dust off their clothes. They are probably not even aware. One girl actually moved her bag because she wanted me to sit next to her. Subway game is fun. How invigorating!

Imagine the whole car, 30-60 people, watching you do a cold approach. Judging you. But it's not so cold. I got the signal already from her. If I fuck up then, whatever. I can live with the awkwardness in between stops. But I'll never be counted among "those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

The only thing a girl will ever give you as a tell is a simple and subtle gesture. Eye contact, feet, hips, hair. Your radar must be on high alert for these signals.

Title	Looking for looks
Author	rangamatchstick
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	May 12, 2015 1:29 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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