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[–]Zerachiell319 6 points7 points8 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Stop putting women on a pedestal. Stop being so goddamn outcome independent. Stop putting so much pressure on yourself and the women you talk to.
You're trying too hard, you're thinking too hard, and you're pretending to be something you're not. Stop putting ratings on women like they're trophies. Girls can sense this, especially the very attractive ones, and they can subconsciously feel that you are pretending to be something you're not just to sleep with them.
Homework: Read "Models" By Mark Manson, it will solve the root cause of your problem.
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[–]Zerachiell319 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cocky and confident are not the same thing. It seems you are familiar with the techniques to game a girl, you have the outer game. You are missing your inner game, and this is what you must master. Best of luck.
[–]DaygameCoach 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Actually, that is funny, because you are an example of how looks sometimes matter. You say your game sucks (and your confidence is blow average) but since you look like a model, you can still pull 8s. :) But yes, you will see men who are not as good looking as you but have solid game...and they do well.
Are you cold approaching or are they approaching you?
The advice here is actually the same as any other guy: work on your attraction game and inner game (including confidence) and you will pull hotter women. Read, understand, and apply the sidebar help.
Do you cold approach these women? Do they open you?
My new mantra here is "Please don't respond telling me you can't do something I suggested...I've heard enough self limiting beliefs."
Cuisine, Daygamer.net
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Actually, that is funny, because you are an example of how looks sometimes matter.
Looks always matter, to some degree.
I read a comment awhile ago that said something to the effect of female attraction coming down to a combination of looks, status (social standing/money/etc, different for everyone), and game. All are relevant, and we should strive to max out all 3, but every person places a different amount of importance on each one.
[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A lot of attraction with women is how you make them feel.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Which is the game side of it.
[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All the things you mentioned are part of "how you make her feel."
[–]Paper_wings421 points 11 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Girls in their early 20's are the most shallow of them all. Get ripped. You're 6'3 so you're already at an advantage. If the pimples bother you wear some BB cream.
What's BB cream?
[–]Paper_wings421 points 11 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
basically its foundation in cream form hides blemishes and smoothes your skin tone.
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here you go
[–]PowerSeductionWar[🍰] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's because you're placing extra value on them and that kinda stifles you a bit
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