I feel awkward about the thought of sex...

ihateusernames12345 · 2015-06-20T05:26:44+00:00

is it fear based.. lack of experience? not finding tbe right person? have u always been like that or...?

ninjamuffin · 2015-06-20T05:31:17+00:00

Your self confidence is low. I would suggest checking out /r/bodybuilding and going to the gym to build up your physique to a point where you start noticing girls noticing you. It's a great feeling, and it really helps you gain confidence. Turn your body into the body of some guy all girls want to get with.

suicideselfie · 2015-06-20T07:38:48+00:00

I lost my virginity when I was 19, almost 20. I was extremely awkward about thoughts of sex up until this relationship. She was more experienced than I was, and we ended up together for three years. She had a few hangups, but overall she was pretty open and a good partner. She taught me a lot and after we broke up I was much more relaxed about sex. So I would recommend finding a girl who can teach you something. You may have "had sex." But have you had a regular partner? Have you locked yourself away for a weekend with someone and just fucked like teenagers? It may be unpopular to say here, but being in love with someone makes a big difference. So yeah, fall in love with someone and work it out, or the next best thing would be to find an older woman who likes to teach.

2015-06-20T06:30:53+00:00

I think a lot of people feel that way before they actually do it.

It's best to be somewhat inebriated when you first start having sex imo. Otherwise you will just lack the confidence and it will be awful.

enkae7317 · 2015-06-20T10:25:30+00:00

Why does it make you cringe? Do you not see yourself having sex.. at all? Do you watch porn or anything?

chiliehead · 2015-06-20T11:29:33+00:00

Sex is in fact pretty awkward and ridiculous. But it is for everyone. Most people are overthinking their first time. And if you´re afraid you don´t last long enough, learn how to use your hands and mouth. Go search things in /r/sex or read something like "She comes first". It´s not like in porn and you won´t be judged.

omark12 · 2015-06-21T04:47:21+00:00

You need to give yourself permission to be a sexual being. you deserve sex no matter what you're like right now. Everyone is having sex, it's such a normal thing. Smart people, dumb people, fat poeple, skinny people, young people, old people, rich people, poor people, hot people, ugly people... everyone is doing it. You can too!

DeltaEmerald · 2015-06-20T05:23:28+00:00

What exactly do you want then?

What do you hope to gain by coming to /r/seduction ?

Title	I feel awkward about the thought of sex...
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Upvotes	21
Comments	20
Date	June 20, 2015 4:21 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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