Several months ago, a buddy invited me to go gaming with him at shopping centers (a.k.a hitting on pretty girls and getting numbers). Being 19 years without ever having a girlfriend, there is a ton of things that I don't know about. Last night we were having a pretty crappy day because the places we chose to game at were mainly populated with families and children instead of suitable game. Just as we were about to get up and leave, I spotted a set walking our way- a brunette and a blonde. My buddy took the brunette and I went for the blonde.

Long story short, it couldn't have gone better. We talked about different things and I thoroughly enjoyed talking to this girl. Me and my buddy liked these girls so we got their numbers walked them back to the parking lot since the mall was closing. When it was time to say goodbye I gave her a sidehug (she was carrying stuff) and my buddy and I left.

As I was driving him home, he mentioned that I did not initiate enough physical contact- and he was right. That girl and I might have connected in a good way but I certainly did not "touch" enough. Yes, hugging does count but I know I'm lacking and I'm not sure exactly where. I plan on seeing her again so I really need to know how to touch without touching too much. I should also mention that sex is not a priority because I'm not going for promiscuity.

What do you guys think? How can I be more physical when talking to girls?