I am a 24yo virgin male who got red pilled a year ago. I've lost all interest in women, do i just have a case of sour grapes?

The_CEO_of_Beta · 2014-02-18T13:43:52+00:00

Regardless of whether you want women or not, you have to interact with them on a daily basis. Unlike men, you have to be redpill to earn their respect, and learn seduction to have them work for you. Initially, I was against having to play on their emotions to communicate with them, but as I learned, they don't have any other driving force. The only way to get them to agree with you is to play on their emotions. So, regardless of whether you get laid or not, you need to know how to seduce women, because that's how they work.

As for anime, women don't like anime, even the ones that do. Go figure. Too bad though, because I have an encyclopedic knowledge of anime.

Cyonotic · 2014-02-18T17:42:15+00:00

lower your expectations of women

literally the only thing I want from women now is their bodies and their feminine/childlike personalities (you know when they say cute shit that makes you nearly fall in love with them). I dont expect them to love me like I love them, I dont expect them to be forever faithful to me (they're gone as soon as they do cheat), I dont expect her to stand by me if I become something shes not attracted to. And realising all this, Im no longer bitter, obviously I would prefer the Blupill fantasy (it is a fantasy after all.)

FindMitch · 2014-02-18T21:07:48+00:00

Hey man, you only live once. You owe it to yourself to start changing things. Change EVERYTHING. Women are not your only problem in life. It sounds like you suffer from social anxiety and an utter lack of drive and ambition. I don't call that living my friend. You're slowly dying and wasting your life. Work on finding a profession/job/activity that occupies a lot of your time that you feel passionate or compelled to do. Is it writing, art, music, science, working with children, etc.? Change your attitude and respect yourself for once in your goddamn life. You're fully capable of a fulfilling life, so stop putting yourself down. Sitting around and thinking about it will get you nowhere. Start taking action...like this minute.

TRP is a collection of beliefs, discussions, philosophies, reports, and knowledge. But it can't take you from 0 to getting laid without some effort. You have to go out and fucking talk. You have to go out and APPLY. You have to test every single theory on this subreddit and find what works for you. You say you understand women now after being redpilled 1 year ago but you haven't gone out and interacted with women. That's like reading "Aerospace for Dummies" and going to the NASA headquarters and demanding an engineering job.

Imagine every single woman you've ever cared about or were attracted to. These women are getting fucked out of their minds right now by men who know what they want and change whatever in their life that they don't find beneficial. Stop hating women, it gets you nowhere. Understand how they work and what you should do. Then go do it.

angryadult · 2014-02-19T00:36:12+00:00

It sounds like you need to stop worrying about women for a while, and start working on yourself.

It's easy to think you don't need sex when you've never had it. Once you do finally have it, you're going to be all like, "ohhhhhhh!"

Women are great. They have a great feminine energy, they are sexually attractive, and frankly, sometimes it's nice to be taken on a rollercoaster of emotions instead of sitting around being reasonable.

But they're people. Flawed, insecure, emotional messes, basically. They're fighting against all kinds of stereotypes and societal expectations and religious expectations. They basically don't know how to act. Just like you don't know how to act in a way that's attractive to women.

The way you get over where you're at is to do something that's hard. Not just a little bit hard, but REALLY hard. And maybe dangerous. It's not a coincidence that a lot of the guys in the military come out really RP. Once you've been shot at, or helped a village get potable water, or whatever, the emotional crap of one person is just so far underneath the radar of concerns in real life that you'll be able to deal with it much better. Alpha men are created through hard work and feeling their power in the world.

Cyonotic · 2014-02-18T17:08:50+00:00

You lack a personal myth. Create one, start with tucker max, californiacation mad men and entourage for media aproved examples of manliness. If you still want to be a lonely little wanker cool, but know that your future self will despise you with a hatred not even your mother could conjure up.

Not it's not sour grapes. Woman serve 2 roles for a young mind, that of ball draining and ego filling. You don't know their ability for the former and the red pill crushed your fantasy about the latter.

Good luck, feel free to message me if you want to be more than a wanker.

[deleted] · 2014-02-18T22:16:01+00:00

Perhaps you are low in Testosterone. Get some blood work. Illnesses and certain meds can kill sex drive.

[deleted] · 2014-02-25T23:49:54+00:00

I completely understand.

I am older than you (early thirties), and I went from wanting the standard stuff - wife and kids - to where I am now, which is that I have no desire to ever be in a relationship with a woman.

Sometimes I hate women, sometimes I'm just indifferent, but either way, my view of them is nothing like it was before.

Bitter? Perhaps it would seem that way to an outside observer, but I don't feel bitter.. I love my job, I love having the freedom to do whatever I want. i love not being worrying about money. I love that I am not chasing females, and not feeling frustration and disappointment. It's very liberating to not covet something you are essentially biologically programmed to covet.

Don't aim to be happy, aim to be content and at peace with yourself. This requires work. You need to work for yourself.

Title	I am a 24yo virgin male who got red pilled a year ago. I've lost all interest in women, do i just have a case of sour grapes?
Author	Cyonotic
Upvotes	12
Comments	21
Date	February 18, 2014 1:16 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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