Was feeling down about myself and my life, but have made the conscious decision to improve...just one question about RACE

Squand · 2015-06-25T18:10:02+00:00

Once you get to know a girl, race won't be a real issue. It's superficial and people don't really care about it outside of 0 impressions or 1st impressions.

Any racial preference can be quickly overcome through shared experience/flirting/game. (outside of overt racism)

"Of course there's also the feeling in you when you approach a girl that maybe she "just doesn't like ______(insert race) guys. Any thoughts?"

This will happen. But if you push through it, they should come around fairly quickly. This happens to white dudes too.

"weight, height, face"

All of these are pretty superficial and easily overcome through good game.

MrLestat · 2015-06-25T18:50:37+00:00

More than race, culture plays a big part in the general picture. What Mark Manson calls friction, in Models. But that only shows after a certain level of interaction, where basic beliefs/opinions are irreconcilable. For example, Latin Americans are very touchy and Northern Europeans like keeping their distance, so the latino guy will seem too forward at first.

Like the other comment said, physical appearance is just superficial qualities that become insignificant after the approach. Obviously in some cases it will make a difference (e.g. If your race is /isn't her type), though that's just statistics - shit happens.

But all this is insignificant if you're confident about yourself, your boundaries and your opinions!

chiliehead · 2015-06-25T19:26:04+00:00

Once you go black, you never go back.

You can´t change your skincolor (you really can´t, Michael), so own it. There are some black dudes who get laid just because they´re black. Some don´t get laid because they´re black. In the end it doesn´t matter (much) if you connect with the girl.

I´m white, mostly (only) know white people and therefore picture myself usually with white women but I´m not opposed to any race.

Just be aware of any negative stereotypes and try to avoid them. Asians are usually pictured as nerdy, shy "beta" guys and therefore women say they don´t find Asians attractive. If you´re Asian and convey confidence, the stereotype doesn´t matter anymore. This applies for any stereotype.

nononothatsux · 2015-06-25T22:52:56+00:00

I've had girls tell me they think black guys are ugly or gross. Sometimes it's really random too. Some girls can be superficial just like guys are.

stlcp · 2015-06-26T00:53:16+00:00

I think when it comes to race it's more so to do with generalizing you with what culture they think you have and if they're attracted to that. I think most people can see through that as they get comfortable with you. That being said some chicks will not hook up with certain races just based on their social circles and culture that influence them. Also, I wish I was your height.

Title	Was feeling down about myself and my life, but have made the conscious decision to improve...just one question about RACE
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Date	June 25, 2015 6:02 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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