Background:

  • I'm relatively new to red pill
  • This is the first girl I pursued with a red pill frame; she loved it and was very attracted to me
  • I feel that she is a catch because of the following: very feminine, submissive, from a wealthy family, pleasant personality, seems chaste relative to other girls her age, beautiful face, great body
  • Unfortunately I performed terribly the first time we had sex (lost boner shortly after putting on condom). She was head over heels for me before this, but I felt a switch inside her head "click" at this point - the attraction to me was gone. This was during our third time seeing each other if that matters
  • I deleted her from facebook due to embarrassment at this point
  • I waited about a week and then texted her that I'd like to see her again. She said we shouldn't since this wasn't going anywhere (we're both final year in college). We both wished each other the best and that was that.

My questions/thoughts:

  • I'm feeling some major heartache for 2 reasons: I lost a high quality girl and I'm worried about my chances of finding a similar girl after graduation since I'm moving to a shitty hipster/progressive city afterwards
  • Should I re-friend her on fbook in-case our paths cross in the future and so she's exposed to my social proof on fbook?
  • Should I just move on and never try to contact her again, thereby removing any chance of us seeing each other again?
  • Any other advice/thoughts are welcomed

Edit: if anyone has more advice/criticism feel free to comment below or PM me. Thanks to everyone who has given advice and criticism so far - it's helped me identify where I went wrong and what I need to work on. I'm happy to say that I have not tried contacting this girl again in any way and I don't plan to. I've accepted that I fucked up and cannot get with her again while keeping my dignity intact