How to approach on the street, whilst walking opposite directions

Cobrantula · 2015-07-04T15:53:06+00:00

If they look or if they don't, I almost always let them walk past me, then I playfully jog back and get directly in front of them and say something like, "Hi, I was just walking by and I thought you were cute so I thought I'd say hi."

It's called a yadstop, made famous by the London Day Gamer Yad. It takes some getting used to, but it is an extremely powerful technique.

2015-07-04T15:19:19+00:00

Start to tell yourself things when girls look at you like that, "She likes what she sees", "she was just checking me out", "she thinks I'm sexy", "I might fuck her if I tried" , etc. None of these things are stretches either, you'd be saying (motivating) statements of fact.

If you like them, then yeah you can/should go back to talk.

I've done it several times. Make sure you're more to the side/front than you are to the back when you get her attention. a lot of times you can touch her on the arm while starting to open. You can just make your way more in front of her and slow down when you want to stand still and talk face to face more. Another good way to stop is a handshake, makes her rotate to the side and slow down.

lomea12 · 2015-07-05T13:10:02+00:00

After having been in that situation a couple of hundred times and having tried out everything, the opener that worked best for me was simply:

Are you Italian? :)

This is an non-needy opener, which stirs interest in the girl: "Why does he think I'm Italian, does he mean I look hot, is it because of what I'm wearing?" etc. Replace Italian by French, Russian etc. depending on where you think she might come from obviously.

You're leading here. I got a positive response around 90% of the time with this opener. It helps if you're good at guessing nationalities by their looks.

You can play around really well with this. If she says no, you say, hmm "Spanish then?" If you still haven't guessed right, you can say: "Ok one last time, French?". If you are still not right, then tell her: "Ok, where are you from then :)" She tells you where she is from and then you can talk about what she is doing here yadda yadda.

At one point, you can tell her: "Ok, so where am i from now." If she tells you to tell her, tell her that she has 3 guesses and she better be right.

You can do so much with this opener. I'm thinking about using that opener only everywhere, night game, day game, events, parties etc.

redditisawesomeinla · 2015-07-04T16:48:26+00:00

If you have trouble with holding eye contact you can go from looking at a spot on her forehead as you move closer and when she's within ten or so feet make direct eye contact. This trick makes it easier for the guys out there who are afraid to maintain eye contact from far away until close up. She'll think you're holding the eye contact (despite the fact you're looking at her forehead).

nigroknight · 2015-07-04T20:00:41+00:00

If there are girls who are walking, in front of you or anywhere, you're best bet is to get in front of them and say your opener. Idk who said it but you must be positive. Think Hide from That 70s Show. You're giving off a fun vibe but you're also digging her. It'll work fine. Rehearse your line if u have to. You'll be surprised by how well getting in front of girls with a smile works.

Just don't go for girls way far away. You don't wanna be nervous wreck and short of breath.

jonnyhaldane · 2015-07-05T00:38:23+00:00

If I see a girl I like who is about to walk past me, I purposely make eye contact, let her go past, then run back in front of her.

Someone else mentioned the yad stop. That is exactly what I do. Approaching from the side can work but they don't always stop. When you get in front of them, they pretty much have to stop.

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-04T16:02:01+00:00

Ok, I'm used to physically demoing this at conferences but I'll try to get the message across:

You are walking toward each other on sidewalk. Way before you get to her, move so that you are not in her path. When you get close to her (but before you get there) , open her (on the side, towards her). She will turn towards you to respond, giving the set more of a chance of being a stopped set. Because she is not facing the direction she was walking, she's more likely to stay and talk to you longer.

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Title	How to approach on the street, whilst walking opposite directions
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Date	July 4, 2015 12:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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