Do I have to change my fashion/appearance to attract women?

shadyultima · 2015-07-11T15:46:20+00:00

There's a difference between nice, attractive style, and corporate suit and tie style. I used to walk around with long hair that never looked clean, over sized clothing, and didn't care to take care of my appearance. I got tired of my long hair, and donated it. I lost weight and began wearing clothes that fit. My style didn't change much, I still dress like a rocker, but I look better now than I did before.

look_at_you · 2015-07-11T18:59:58+00:00

Depends on the women you want to attract. My style is pretty hypebeasty too, and my experience is that most younger girls like this style. It really comes down to identifying yourself with other people and the other way around. So if the girl wears street clothes as well, she'll identify herself with you and feel more comfortable starting talk to you, than if you looked like a CEO. Of course you can attract people with other style than yourself, but your initial ethos will be much higher if you fall in the same categories.

Dress and act like the girls you want to attract... or attract the girls that act and dress like you.

DaygameCoach · 2015-07-11T20:17:18+00:00

It's your judgmental-ness (corporate slave, daddy's fashion sense) and self-limiting beliefs (what women want, you aren't powerful or have class) that are the problems.

As far as your style...if it's a well-crafted style that looks good on you, it should work.

Do women send you attraction signals all day? Do they send you the signals when you talk to them? Including hair tosses and eye contact? Do you catch them looking at you when they think you aren't looking? If you don't know how to read all this, buy Superflirt, Superdate, Unmasking the face, and maybe You See More Than You Think (I helped on that book).

Cuisine, daygamer.net

wcstyles · 2015-07-11T10:12:45+00:00

post pics to r/malefashionadvice

2015-07-12T00:47:28+00:00

Suits are not about corporation or work. Suits, the real bespoke ones, are pieces of art that the affluent or men with successful wears. The reason why older men wear suits more often is because you can't just buy it off the street, it takes money.

It doesn't show that he is a corporate slave or what ever bullshit, that would be his personality or career position.

OlemGolem · 2015-07-12T17:25:33+00:00

Read the Kinowear bible. It's advice for starters is looking for fitting clothes and you can always safely combine the colors blue, black, white and grey in any way and any combination. (As long as it's not completely black or white and keep it at three colors or less.)

http://www.kinowear.com/

Title	Do I have to change my fashion/appearance to attract women?
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Date	July 11, 2015 9:36 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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