I've been working on myself a good bit (diet is better, consistently in gym, getting myself more organized, etc.). I go out on Thurs. - Fri. nights with my friends to bars/clubs. When I go out, I do make efforts to be more social. Therefore, Ive gotten a fair handful of numbers over the weeks. Unfortunately, most dont really go anywhere (no replies, flaked dates, etc.). This wouldnt be an issue if I could attract and "pull" at other times during the day. My issue is that I feel like im stuck to waiting at least until Thursday nights to get potential dates, partners, etc. During the day, when I see attractive women I like, without them saying something to me first or doing something that would attract a lot of attention, I just plain out don't know what to say. And I therefore envision just walking up to them just to stare.

I feel more comfortable and clubs/bars because there is usually some type of dancing element, and I excel at that. But out in the "world", I'm out my element. So, do you guys have any tips or advice to help me out?