The biggest mistake I see men make--a mistake which has ruined countless male lives--is committing himself, and his love, to the wrong woman.

By "the wrong woman," I don't mean a woman that isn't your perfect soulmate...but rather, women who are irreparably broken or dysfunctional.

I would know--I went through this myself. I dated two Cluster B women that tore my mind and my soul apart in my impossible task of pleasing them.

On the other hand, I have had the pleasure of being with women who were mentally and emotionally sound...or at least, as much as can be expected from a female.

The difference is night and day.

I want to warn PUA guys about this because many of you out there will see a woman properly gamed as your "prize," and then invest lots of time and energy into her. However, you may have missed very obvious and flagrant red flags that while she may be good for some fast sex, she might be terrible for relationships.

Here are some red flags you can pick up on in a ten minute conversation that should make you clearly realize that the woman you are speaking to is unworthy of a relationship:

  1. Any sort of alcohol or drug addiction.

Does she love to party? Do lots of coke? Drink herself stupid every night? Then she is going to bring all her inner pain into your relationship and make it miserable for you. Do not commit.

  1. Talks About Abusive Exes

This is the biggest red flag of all. Most of the women who openly blab about abuse on first dates are lying. When you break up with her, you will then become another guy on her list of "abusive exes" she tells to potential victims, oops, I meant suitors. Do not commit.

  1. Any sort of wide-eyed craziness.

Sometimes, you can just tell that a girl is insane. It isn't cute, it isn't endearing, and you won't learn lots of stuff and grow from the relationship by facing the challenge. Instead, you will be brought to your knees and your soul will suffer for it. Do not commit.

In order to find a woman worth committing to, write out a specific list of things you want done in your life, that you have neither the time nor desire to do for yourself.

Laundry, cleaning, making food, etc...whatever it is that would balance out your life.

Then, make sure the woman actually does such things willingly and freely for the men in her life. That is how you create and find a proper relationship: Choose a role for her ahead of time and NEXT or fuck and dump any girl who doesn't fit the bill.

If you can't find any women like that, then don't date any of them seriously. It is better to be alone than dating an unsuitable woman.

Cheers.