I recently read Models and it's changed my whole perception of dating and seduction. I'm really trying to adopt the whole True Confidence thing, but I'm not quite there yet. I feel like I've been coming off too much of a dick to women, even though I am just saying what I want. But I would love some perspective on a situation from all you sexy bastards.

I met an incredibly attractive younger woman months ago at a party, we kissed, exchanged numbers, and I had been trying to get her to date me ever since. She's young and immature and leading me on. I did the nice guy thing, told her I had feelings for her, got mad and guilted her when she kept making excuses not to date me... Basically did fucking everything wrong. We sext sometimes, exchange dirty pictures, I see her occasionally at social events and we chat, I try to get her alone, to make a move on her, get her to see me, but nothing happens.

Now I'm trying to polarize the fuck out of this chick. I don't care about any friendship or backlash resulting in my behavior, so I'm goin' for broke. Here's a snip of a conversation we had last night:

  • Me: "So let's get dinner tomorrow, then we can go watch the fireworks and make out a little. You should wear a skirt for me."

  • Her: "idk, I might have plans with so-and-so already" (same flaky bullshit she always says when I ask her out)

  • Me: "Too bad you're too intimidated by me to go on a date, we could have had some fun together."

  • Her: "What the hell do you mean by that???"

  • Me: "I intimidate the hell out of you. It was blatantly obvious last time we talked. It's okay, you can admit it baby."

  • Her: "Okay, what the fuck is with your attitude lately? Stop acting like you're the hottest guy anyone has ever seen, because you're not. This douche bag fuck-boy act isn't attractive at all. When you're done being a dick and thinking you're gods gift to women, let me know and I'll be down to fool around with you." (yeah, I'll turn back into being a nice guy again, that got me so laid...)

  • Me: "Are you done?"

(she doesn't respond till the next morning)

  • Her: "What?"

  • Me: "With your little rant there. Guess you were done."

  • Her: "Fuck you. Don't talk to me again." (she's bluffed like this before, she will text me later)

  • Me: "Talk to you later baby!"

So how did I come across here? Am I embracing this whole not-giving-a-shit attitude right? Am I coming across as too douchey or try-hard? My two options with this girl are bang her, or piss her off so much that she never speaks to me again. Should I just keep going hard with this until something happens?

And yes, I know I have a very slim chance of anything happening with her. I'm not doing this to get laid, I'm doing this to learn how to become a stronger man who says what he wants and doesn't give a shit.