Evening Seddit, looking to find casual sex hookups/ friends with benefits arrangements through POF. Came back from University recently and work a steady to 9-5 to options generally come few and far between and I'm really not a fan of soloing bars to cold approach. I can approach to some extent but generally I don't like doing it.

My question is what's the best way to engage the possibilty of sexual encounters through POF? Problem is most explain explicitly that they are not on it for the sex but is it best to set up dates with more than sex intention and then leave it after that or is it better to just be upfront about intentions?

Ta all X