I see a lot of people posting on here having success with Tinder, OkCupid, POF, etc. I've never used these services or done online dating even though people have recommended it to me.

I guess I have two hang-ups. (1) I don't get social media (2) Don't like the idea of being rejected virtually.

I guess my thought is if I can't make myself seem attractive in a profile, what makes me attractive for real? I probably have some other hang-ups about it too. Probably afraid of my profile data being leaked in a hack. :)

I'd love to hear advice and tips for people those on r/seduction that were also apprehensive but were able to figure it out.