What do I do? Want to get with this girl...

ThatSpecialPlace · 2015-09-09T13:20:52+00:00

idk what your thinking but we cant date....

That's an instant next in my book.

You're wasting your time with her. You'll look better if you just let her go and cut off contact and go after other girls. Shows you're not needy. Plus you're only in high school so don't get so down about girls.

Byizo · 2015-09-09T13:56:08+00:00

If you haven't contacted her, don't. Ignore the fuck out of her. You're going to meet tons of women throughout high school, college, adulthood, etc. There is no good reason to get hung up on this one. She's no more special than the next.

variationx · 2015-09-09T14:14:04+00:00

If "wanting to get with her" means that you just want sex, just let her know that you don't care about dating her either, just want to hang out and have some fun because "she's cool enough to be friends". I'm sure you can seal the deal without having to officially date. One of my big mistakes was always thinking I needed to date or be in a relationship to have sex with a girl. Just take the lead as an alpha, fun, don't give a fuck type, it will draw her in.

ResistingTemptation · 2015-09-09T14:24:32+00:00

Meh. You'll mature more if you don't pursue anything with her and look for other girls.

But if you truly want her, clarify with her that not dating is ok, and that you just want to enjoy each other's company for the time she is here. You both need to agree not to get too attached though, otherwise it's a ticking time bomb lol. So I'll say again, best case scenario, look elsewhere.

Title	What do I do? Want to get with this girl...
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Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	September 9, 2015 12:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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