I don't know when I developed this trait. I have always had low confidence when it comes to women. I college everyone used to make fun of me. Later, in professional life, I just isolated myself whenever people made fun of me and bashed at people.

So I am your typical anti-social guy. I have noticed about myself that I keep seeking sympathy. May be that's my way to get people's attention. Why is that ?

I have read "no more mr nice guy". How do I transition from sympathy seeker to alpha male ?