A huge game change is when you assume you're worthy and let the girl qualify herself to you and make the hard work.

For that, you should be valuable in her eyes and therefore have created attraction, a process that can be achieved really fast if you learned to convey value the right way - for a short advice on how you can do that through text, see my #1 text game trick.

But being interesting and attractive won't work on it's own if you're too pushy.

There is a simple rule in pick-up when it comes to a man to women interaction : someone has to game.

If you're attractive while not being needy, the girl will game you.

Well that being said, how do you create this in (text) game ?

Remember, there has to be some attraction, if not, work on yourself and learn to convey value (a simple way to see that is that the one who care the less about the outcome has the most value - because he doesn't care)

Here are some advices you could use :

  • Don't force yourself to answer. Something I quite often say to myself is : ok, that's not enough - and I don't respond. Don't worry about the conversation dying, you'll have something else of value to share sooner or later. Or she will try harder to make you react (that's good, son).

  • Don't give too much in a row. If you feel you're writing too much, you probably are. It's ok to write a novel from time, but overhelming a girl with texts will often make her only respond to things that are the most obvious, wich means less efforts for her and thus less investment.

  • Use risky texts from times to times. See it as you shit testing the girl to see how she reacts. Also it helps dramatically to move things forward when you're bold, and do it the right way (in a non-creepy way).

  • Don't use too much emoticones, that's lame. A good rule it that shouldn't use more than her. It's good to have some special emotes used for private jokes through.

  • Paradoxically, what worked really well for me is to use a good amount of 'haha' and simple smileys ':)'. It shows that you're fun to hang out with and not taking the interaction too seriously. Of course, if you're picking up James Bond's style, you may as well ignore this advice. But I doubt you'd bother learning about phone game if you were.

  • Don't care about formating. Just speak in a proper way, avoiding spelling or gramatical mistakes as much as possible if you don't want to look like a dumbass. Then it's just texts, it should be lite and you should be and seem relaxed. Let loose :)

Well that's all I can think about. Remember, the overall most important thing in pick up is : have fun !

If you have some questions, feel free to ask.