Going to a festival this weekend. Anyone want to share their wisdom on getting with girls? Any stories?

ThatSpecialPlace · 2015-09-25T21:58:15+00:00

When you're dancing and doing your thing, look around you. If you see any girls giving you IOIs (Looking at you and then looking away when you look at them, smiles, etc.) Just go up to them and start dancing. You can literally just try dancing with them or you can open first ("Hey hows it going?" "You're really cute I just had to meet you" etc.), and then try dancing with them.

If you get rejected in anyway, laugh it off and move on to the next.

"Just have fun" is the key advice because that's what girls like, they literally just want to have fun. Fun is the currency, have it in abundance.

Chances are, you'll get rejected a lot. It won't matter at all if you're having fun. As Mark Manson puts it, getting rejected only means you won't waste your time with a girl that you're not going to have fun with.

Zero36 · 2015-09-25T22:23:44+00:00

I think you'll fail before you even get to beyond wonderland with that kind of mindset. Don't go with the expectation to get with girls. It will show through all your actions. I would say just focus on having fun with yourself and just maintaining an alpha mindset. Girls will really pick up on that vibe. If they see you having a ton of fun with yourself and your friends they'll give you the IOI. That's your opportunity to open. How to open? Read the sidebar. Club/rave nearly the same shit. I'd say rave girls are easier to deal with than drunk club girls because they'll give you less bitchframe. Also you won't get as cock blocked by her friends like u would at a club.

It's also a numbers game. Don't be super beta and orbit a girl you think is hella cute. If she notices you and u don't open within 3 seconds, you failed. You'll come off as creepy/needy. There will be a ton of girls there. If ones not interest. Move on. You didn't know her a minute ago. And you'll forget about her in the next minute. If u do get hung up, you got some inner game to work on.

Also I highly recommend avoiding drugs too early. It will throw off your game cause you will just look like a rollypolly. Just be cool, yourself, have fun.

I would really start with RSD inner game material also.

Ah also didn't mention. If u feel like ur on your game u can practice and open girls u think are HB 6-7. You'll get more into the abundance mindset. That will help u transition up to HB 8-9

AMart1901 · 2015-09-26T01:08:32+00:00

Don't be tentative at all just go for it. Do some Molly too, shit is euphoric.

IndianGainzDance · 2015-09-25T21:38:49+00:00

Open every girl you see that you find attractive. Ask her about her experiences there so far. Make her laugh. Tell her about how you accidentally projectile puked at the late night set the night before. Tell her about how you did too much acid and woke up in a strangers tent (actually happened to me, would not recommend). Just get her to understand that you're a funny, charming dude that loves to experience new things, escalate some kino, then get a number to chill later or ask her to go watch another set.

The festivals I frequent (and the ones I would recommend) all have an air of openness, freedom, and positivity. Negative rejection is extremely rare at these festivals, so it's a great opportunity to practice escalation in a low stress environment. Just do you, have fun, be the prize, and the atmosphere will do all the work for you.

juanlee337 · 2015-09-26T01:10:44+00:00

fuck all this bullshit. Just have fun.. be that fun guy and make alot of eye contact and everything will fall into place.

2015-09-26T00:10:05+00:00

I went to StreetParad 2015 Zurich this year, 1 million+ people, boy it was huge festival.

I observed wtf is happening in festivals, all people who go to festivals are very friendly and open people, if you open to someone you will be welcomed by everyone else in your environment. It is the time to become a approach machine, like bratatatatata... It is easy to become friends with simply anyone, and easier to makeout with girls.

The types of guys who get success at festivals, 1-Handsome Guys, 2-Muscle Guys, 3-Bold and Confident Guys. If you fit in to any of these type of guys, then you are good to go. Best advice will be open to as many girls as possible, even if it takes to meet every single girls in festival, from bottom to the top it still worth it. Second good advice will be be high energy and keep good vibes on you. Third big advice always keep moving forward, open to a girl, 10 minute convo, make out, stay with girl for 30 minutes, get her attracted enough to you and you are ready to fuck her, this is only 1 theory to get laid there but you do what you want, hope you find success there, dont forget to bring hard work and go get mentality with you.

V4refugee · 2015-09-26T01:51:45+00:00

Invite girls to the festival and make sure to invite the ugly ones too.

treegerfinger · 2015-09-26T02:09:55+00:00

Have fun = girls looking your way, IOIs etc Peacocking = girls will open you

Find some interesting shit to wear like interesting glasses, weird hat, basically anything a girl can take off of you and wear. Girls will open you and half the work is already done.

enkae7317 · 2015-09-25T21:36:41+00:00

If you feel forced because most people say just dance on girls you can always do it how I do it: grab them by the shoulder or hand, turn them around, smile and say dance?

Method 2 is: grab their hand and twirl them into you and start dancing. No words.

Method 3 is:claw. Nuff said.

Overall just have fun. You shouldn't even think about gaming that much. It should just happen. Hang out with your bros. Get drunk (not too drunk). The experience is more than anything.

2015-09-25T21:56:57+00:00

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Title	Going to a festival this weekend. Anyone want to share their wisdom on getting with girls? Any stories?
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Date	September 25, 2015 9:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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