So I have been friends with this girl a while, however over summer we didn't speak, we only really studied together. I saw her looking at me and looking quickly down at college. So I call her up, and ask her to go dancing. This was two days ago.

I didn't call it a date or anything, I never do.

So at my place we have a couple of drinks. We both get really close, we talk about a range of topics. Then we start to sit closer, she moves her chair to get closer to me. Our legs are touching, she keeps asking me how her hair is, then she asks me to touch it and style it how I want. Lots of eye contact, and I haven't even started my full kino yet. She is touching my face, she even made me stroke her leg as she had a bruise on it.

We hear my flatmate come down the stairs and she moves away. So I'm guessing this is just ASD and also she doesn't know him at all.

We go out to dance, however her mood changes, she doesn't want to be touched, she dances far apart. She then says she is bored and we should meet new people. We go to another club. She talks to another guy, so I just look around and see my friends, and they are happy to see me, hugging me, high fiving me, picking me up from the floor. I was centre of attention.

She then comes over with the guy, and says "this is my friend" I tap him on the shoulder, nod at him and walk back into the club she follows me in without the guy. We dance but I see that she is upset.

Then her mood goes to worse, so I take her home. We live 2 mins apart so no big deal. On the way home she says she doesn't liked to be touched, I mention to her all the touching he did before at my house. She said remind me next time not to do it. Then she allows me to touch her, then she keeps talking about how we a good friends.

I take her home and go to my house.

She texts me in the morning saying thanks for taking me home. Then she explains how she hasn't had alcohol in one month due to Work. And that it can make her depressed and a little sad, and she needs time to get used to it. She said we should meet up soon again. She then says that she can still smell my perfume on her.

So should I take her word for it? Maybe alcohol did make her very sad. She called me a friend to another guy? She started all the touching and she stops?

At first her actions were good, at my house then I think the alcohol got to her. Then her actions were negative and shows no interest.