So I got friendzoned by a girl who I went on multiple dates with. It wasn't so much what I did, but that she still had feelings for her ex and told me she wanted to remain as friends.

I know the common advice here would be to forget about her, to develop a mindset of abundance, etc.

Of course that's easier said than done.

What are the best ways for me to get over this girl?

Improve all aspects of my life and make her see what she missed out on?

But at the same time this sounds bad because your actions shouldn't be mainly motivated by a girl.

I'm at a hard spot because I know how I should be thinking, but my hearts telling me something else.

Me and the girl ended up doing a lot of boyfriend/girlfriend stuff together (dates, kissing, one f-close) so I was fairly attached when she dropped the news on me.

I need some clarity Seddit. Any advice would be appreciated!