How do you know when to keep pursuing or when to "next her" and move on?

SwagVonYolo · 2016-08-27T16:27:54+00:00

Its around the time you ask yourself this question :)

I follow the "fuck yes or no" thinking. I have enough self worth to know that she should responsive and excited to see me. Just as i am excited to see her.

If its not like that then its time to next

Dr_Wily_MD · 2016-08-27T16:20:47+00:00

When she becomes unresponsive/gives one-word answers to texts, etc...NEXT! I've got too many other things to do (not even usually other women, just friends, hobbies and responsibilities) to sit here and worry about this grown-ass woman's disinterest or head games.

diego-fer · 2016-08-27T16:36:12+00:00

In my personal experience the more possibilities you have of having fun, spending time with different girls and so on the less you will ask yourself this kind of question.

When I was after one girl I was constantly wondering why was she acting the way that she was, if I should call her or not, and so on. Once I start meeting more people and having fun the answer comes so naturally, she wasn't the person that I wanted to be with.

Other thing that comes to mind is that once you are seem in some way by a girl, (maybe humanity as a whole), is that your good traits can be forgoten really easy while your "bad" traits are there to stay longer.

Why do I say this?, because in my personal experience once I have shown that I'm willing to let the other person treat me in a certain way that is the image that they are working with. For example if I make plans with a girl and she show late and I am ok she knows that she can be late and I'll be ok, if you invite her from the beginning it's more likely that she will wait the same kind of behaviour in the future.

Don't let other people treat you like anything less that you are, and if you feel that you are not comfortable in a certain situation take some distance. Also don't let your actions make yourself weaker, seek to be more powerful, more confident, a "better" person in your own means.

startup_guy2 · 2016-08-27T21:26:06+00:00

Here's my solution: Keep building interest and attraction with this girl (subject of post) but also begin and continue to develop interest/attraction with other girls.

palkiabros · 2016-08-27T16:24:26+00:00

To string onto this, there's a girl I've been talking to for a few months. Everything seemed peachy keen and going the right way. It sounded like once school started back up, we'd get together. But recently she's been closed off and terse, with no real explanation. Am I in the right mind by jumping ship? Her behavior change is concerning

youKnowImRightBitch · 2016-08-27T20:38:58+00:00

If she is white but you are not, stop it all together

Title	How do you know when to keep pursuing or when to "next her" and move on?
Author	guidegoods
Upvotes	14
Comments	15
Date	August 27, 2016 2:29 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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