How to answer 'Number of Sexual Partners'??

2015-10-04T21:24:56+00:00

"Not your business" while making a smug smile. Never answer directly. Or fake it till you make it and say 40.

2015-10-04T21:11:35+00:00

It's a shit test. Don't answer it. Instead, work around it:

"What, today?" "Are we counting men, women, AND sheep?"

2015-10-04T22:25:44+00:00

"I lost track"

You probably don't want to tell a girl you've only slept with two people. It may or may not hurt you but it's definitely not going to help.

2015-10-05T17:30:32+00:00

"enough" with a grin after showing some avoidance to the question.

I am still a virgin and laugh. I think that is my fav because it does actually make me laugh to say to someone.

She is basically asking if you are good in bed so 2 is just a bad response.

I would go with "enough" but it is how you say. If you say "enough" right away it sounds defensive and sounds like 2.

If you try to dodge the question and then say "enough" she kind of fills in what she thinks the perfect experienced guy would have.

RatchetMyPlank · 2015-10-04T22:19:35+00:00

In my own experience, the vadt majority of girls asking this are the ones who are insecure / dishonest about their own numbers. Often if I answered it leads to friction if my answer isn't in the ballpark of the fictional number they were planning to tell me.

Nowadays I just tell them I stopped counting after I turned 20 (years old) because I grew up.

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2015-10-05T00:31:18+00:00

How about you sleep with more people if you care so much

lasvegasfun · 2015-10-05T01:13:54+00:00

I always answer honestly and if they don't like what I have to say, then NEXT!

Byizo · 2015-10-05T12:42:33+00:00

Never either honestly or dishonestly reveal your count to a woman. Here are some go to's that I have:

"I didn't know I was supposed to be keeping track."
"Slept with!? I'm still a virgin! I don't even know what a boob feels like." (Say this with a shit eating grin so she knows you're obviously kidding)
"Somewhere in the low hundreds"
And my favorite: "This week?"

TrusssMiDaddi · 2015-10-04T23:50:17+00:00

DON'T EVER ANSWER THIS. If a girl asks you it's a shit test, some girl recently did this to me she's a 10 so I laughed and told her playfully I won't tell her. She then says why I'll tell you how many I have then she says 1 and I say me too. She then guess 40 women which is not true lol I only have 18, but I would never tell her that. You get judged either way.

biggend · 2015-10-04T21:33:49+00:00

"I've slept with a ton, just not that many." ;-)

2015-10-04T23:55:45+00:00

Agree and amplify "you mean today? 5 before I got out of bed "

Title	How to answer 'Number of Sexual Partners'??
Author	Throwingitawayayy
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	October 4, 2015 8:52 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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