Is it even possible for an adult male in the USA to live a life that consists of lots of partying, drinking, friends, and sex with tons of different women? If it is then how do you build that lifestyle?

youlovethisish · 2015-10-05T22:06:24+00:00

I'll tell you what, young grasshopper. The short answer to your question is - yes, it's completely possible. Many men are doing it and enjoying it. But not the majority, for many good reasons (and chances are you don't really care to hear about them).

The fact is though, you will get NOTHING you want out of life until you've GIVEN something of value to the world. You failed to have sex in college not because you weren't in a fraternity, but because you provided no value to women. Take responsibility for that. Apply this to every facet of your life. Want a job? Provide value to an organization with money to give (for most people, this is the company that employs them. However, you can also be a sugar baby or create a startup).

Basically, if you want to play hard, you need to know how to work hard. Work hard at your career, work hard at attracting women, work hard on your body (because after years of debauchery, your body won't be able to handle it anymore, and you will most likely die young), work hard on being a better man, work hard on networking to meet valuable people, work hard on every fucking thing you do. Then, and only then, will you be able to party, drink, fuck, and live.

Hularula · 2015-10-05T21:55:29+00:00

"I will be graduating college as a virgin because I was not in a fraternity"

I highly doubt that is the reason why.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-10-05T22:09:27+00:00

The reason I have had to specify all of this is because the few times I have asked this, a few users on here decided to shove their morals down my throat such as how sex with lots of women is bad, partying is awful, and I should be a grown man that marries and has kids instead of enjoying life because that is what is morally right.

That sort of moralizing is not condoned in seddit. However, take some responsibility for the conversation. The way you are framing this is inciting a negative reaction. If you tell people not to lecture you, that's a pretty sure way to get people to lecture you.

In addition, you are not giving people any way to engage with your issues. You appear to have made no attempt whatsoever to learn or understand the fundamental concepts of the seduction community (start in the sidebar). This makes people reluctant to answer because they would have to educate you from square one, in order for you to understand what they say. So instead, you get a bunch of snarky answers from other inexperienced guys. It's not surprising.

If you expect to get good answers, you need to ask good questions. Show that you understand some of the basic PUA ideas, instead of blathering about frat boys and partying with hot women.

I have reviewed the you respond to comments. You are hostile and antagonistic. You are causing a nuisance. The moderators are tired of cleaning up after you cause trouble. We're going to give you enough rope to hang yourself, and then you will be gone from seddit. So get with the program or get out.

2015-10-05T21:54:46+00:00

Uh, duh. It's a free country, you can do whatever you want.

I will be graduating college as a virgin because I was not in a fraternity

Lol wut since when is being in a frat a prerequisite to getting laid? You're a virgin because you didn't have sex.

I want to spend at least 10 years of my life doing the wild partying, drinking, and fucking tons of different women to make up for lost time.

Eh I got over that in like 2-3 years, at least with going super hardcore about partying all the time. But you do you. Just make sure you're doing this because you want to do it and not because you're trying to live up to some macho fantasy or because you think you're the only young man who isn't getting any.

Anyways, you just graduated so hopefully you're in a good position to get a well-paying career. You don't need 6 figures or anything, just enough to support yourself independently and have some disposable income. Then work out so you're attractive enough, get a nice bachelor pad, and take vacations to sunny places. I don't think you realize the amount of options you have as a self-sufficient adult.

Just be prepared to put in work for all those things. Nothing is free.

tamilgangster · 2015-10-05T22:30:34+00:00

I will be graduating college as a virgin because I was not in a fraternity

I had sex before I was in a fraternity in college. Also, so was everyone was who wasn't in a fraternity.

In college, you can get away with hooking up just by being a fellow student. Post-College, if you don't have a job or a solid plan, many women will categorize you as a loser with no future.

RespondsWithImprov · 2015-10-06T01:40:03+00:00

You can't make up for lost time. You can make upcoming time a good time. The things you want are happening somewhere right now. Think about how and where. Think about why you are not there. Also think if you actually want it or just want to show it off.

stoofhan · 2015-10-05T21:27:42+00:00

Sure. Ever heard of Dan Bilzerian? That's all he does. You just have to have daddy money and win a few poker hands.

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