How do y'all feel about the friendzone?

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-10-15T21:21:02+00:00

The friend zone is a place you put yourself. It happens because you are too focused on making her comfortable with you, rather than attracted. That is why the traditional seduction model has three stages, attraction-comfort-seduction, and you do them in that order. If you start with comfort, you are assuming she is already attracted, rather than stimulating her attraction. Result: she is more comfortable than attracted. This is the friend zone. A woman should be a little bit uncomfortable with you, you have to keep her a bit off balance to create attraction.

evilgenivs · 2015-10-15T22:42:15+00:00

If this happens to me, I think I will say this: "We can be friends as long as you introduce me to women."

landophett · 2015-10-16T07:51:45+00:00

I think the friendzone is an entirely stupid concept. The entire idea is based in "I do nice things for her she should have sex with me" you should be nice to every girl, every person for that matter. The friendzone assumes that you feel entitle to sex and that because you're nice to a girl she'll give you sex. You have to attract a girl for her to be attracted to you. I hate when guys say they're friendzoned that basically tells me, you were super nice to a girl without giving her anything to be attracted to and you expected her to have sex with you. But I also think being friends with a girl isn't a bad thing, from a seduction stand point she can introduce you to her hot friends but from another perspective she can be a good female friend to give you perspective but everyone who says they're in the friendzone never gave that girl anything to be attracted to, never risked anything

Mechanickingpin · 2015-10-15T17:20:33+00:00

I don't let it get that far. I cut contact immediately if a girl is not interested in more than friendship.

permashred · 2015-10-15T20:08:09+00:00

If she says "I don't want to ruin our friendship," then I say "You just did," and cut contact.

Title	How do y'all feel about the friendzone?
Author	NapalmOverdos3
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	October 15, 2015 5:17 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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